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Sororities Were Built On Excluding Students Like Me. Let's Change That

Greek organizations must rethink their approach race, gender and class. (Yes, even in Canada.)

For many eager, wide-eyed university freshmen, their first glimpse of North American Greek life can come from cringeworthy portrayals of the untamed college jungle in films and TV. Stereotypes of 3 a.m. keg stands, Frosh Week parties and hyper-masculine frat brothers aside, joining a sorority or fraternity has been a defining factor in the college experience.

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Greek systems have dominated college campuses across the United States and Canada, boasting over 9 million active and alumni members, and establishing powerful connections in the worlds of finance and politics. Seventy-six per cent of U.S. presidents belonged to a fraternity; Wall Street is described as “a fraternity pipeline.”

Canadian Greeks have also made major strides in various fields, including Prime Minister Lester B. Pearson (Delta Upsilon, Toronto), famed war poet Lieutenant Colonel John McCrae (Zeta Psi, Toronto), renowned Canadian artist and Group of Seven member Lawren Harris (Delta Kappa Epsilon, Toronto) and former Ethics Commissioner and Order of Canada recipient Mary Dawson (Alpha Omicron Pi, Montreal).

Considering the networking opportunities, prestigious reputation and rich history of Greek organizations, the advantages would seem enticing to anyone. In my case, the benefits certainly seemed to outweigh the costs — at first.

I joined Alpha Omicron Pi in my first year at the University of Toronto after an encounter with the university’s National Panhellenic Council (organization representing sororities) on social media. I never imagined myself joining a Greek organization, believing they only existed across the border.

Anti-Semitism kept Alpha Omicron Pi co-founder Stella George Stern from joining a women's fraternity at Barnard College, pictured here in 1955.
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Anti-Semitism kept Alpha Omicron Pi co-founder Stella George Stern from joining a women's fraternity at Barnard College, pictured here in 1955.

Our organization was founded in 1897 on the basis of inclusion and diversity, with our founders coming from different religious and socio-economic backgrounds. Alpha Omicron Pi was formed due, in part, to the anti-Semitism faced by our founder, Stella George Stern Perry, while trying to joining existing organizations at Barnard College (now affiliated with Columbia University in New York). I consider myself lucky to have joined a Greek organization that cherishes these values.

However, it wasn’t long before I noticed my experiences of Greek life as a woman of colour differed differed from that of other members.

‘The system was not built for individuals like me’

Greek organizations were established on campuses during a time when higher education was accessed by predominantly white, upper-class males. Fraternities were a promise of brotherhood, exclusivity and status between like-minded individuals from similar backgrounds.

As women slowly entered higher education in the late 1880s, sororities were established as a safe space within a predominantly male academic environment. The idea of “sisterhood” was made a focus, but it was clear that this was limited to the privileged few who could afford it.

Put simply, the system was not built for individuals like me.

When Greek organizations originally expanded north, starting at the University of Toronto in the late 1880s, they were heavily influenced by politics. In 1959, sororities would require potential new members to declare their race and religion, and used it as a determining factor for acceptance. Barbara Arrington, a Black honours psychology student at the University of Toronto, was barred membership from a sorority due to political influence from the organization’s headquarters.

“It would be an embarrassment to the organization to have one minority,” they said.

Black student Barbara Arrington was barred from joining a Toronto sorority, as detailed in this article published in The Varsity's Sept. 24, 1959 issue.
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Black student Barbara Arrington was barred from joining a Toronto sorority, as detailed in this article published in The Varsity's Sept. 24, 1959 issue.

Racial and economic discrimination continues throughout the North American Greek system. As recently as early 2018, a video of a white sorority girl repeatedly saying “ni****” leaked on social media. Two students at the University of Oklahoma were told to leave campus after a video surfaced of them performing in blackface. People of colour are placed at a disadvantage in Southern U.S. chapters, being denied bids based on race or economic background.

I’ve personally experienced racism in Greek life. My race often comes up as the subject of party conversation. My parents are both Filipino immigrants, coming to Canada in the mid-1990s and working blue-collar jobs. As such, I took jobs outside academics and saved money every summer to pay my own sorority dues and rent. I worked hard for everything I achieved in my university career, whether it be a position on a newspaper’s masthead or a summer internship in Toronto’s financial district.

Yet I once attended a fraternity party only to be confronted by a (possibly intoxicated) individual insisting they tell me about their Filipino nanny, perpetuating negative stereotypes about my culture without the slightest thought of it being racist and insensitive.

Bridging the diversity gap on Greek row

Yes, Greek organizations do operate differently in Canada than in the U.S. Racial diversity differs by chapter, with racially diverse chapters more likely to be located in densely populated urban areas than in the Antebellum South. Some chapters are starting to address racial diversity, and that’s a great step forward.

However, we must consider that us Greeks all benefit both socially and economically from being a part of this system. Sadly, this sometimes means we fail to properly address scandals faced by the community: sexual assault, hazing, lack of diversity. As benefactors, we have a duty to address long-term issues even if we feel our chapter doesn’t contribute to these problems.

I, too, realize that I benefit from participating in this system, even as it has historically dispossessed people of colour. I realize that I have privilege over fellow POC who otherwise may not be able to join a Greek-letter organization.

“We need to use our influence across college campuses to... address our shortcomings.”

Despite scandal after scandal, POC members may choose to join Greek organizations for the promise of privileges as they would predominantly white Ivey League schools, forgetting at times that the success of post-secondary institutions was built on exclusivity and discrimination.

Reforming our outdated system is a responsibility taken up by all stakeholders: Greek community members, university administration and communities who have been historically excluded in Greek life. If our Greek organizations were founded upon the ideals of fraternal/sororal bonding, we need to use our influence across college campuses to enact discussion on diversity, address our shortcomings and bring together a community.

Will we see a reform overnight? Probably not. But we can start by following in the footsteps of organizations such as the University of British Columbia, whose Interfraternity Council (IFC) adopted the university’s policy on sexual violence in their bylaws, undergoing mandatory training. Other organizations have also adopted diversity and inclusion policies in response to recent scandals regarding race and membership selection — I am proud to say that includes my own.

Acknowledging our shortcomings and creating active, long-term solutions to long-term problems personally gives me hope for the future of the North American Greek system. It brings us a step closer to bridging the diversity gap on Greek row.

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