Itâs late at night and youâre on your way home. You finally get off the bus, but you have several blocks to walk before you get back to your place. Shadows stretch out in front of you on the empty street. You can keep yourself company with a podcast, but instinct tells you that might not be the best idea.
If youâre a woman, this probably feels familiar. The risk of street harassment or violence is something women are taught to be aware of from a young age. And itâs sometimes tricky to explain this palpable unease.
So, artist Nalakwsis illustrated it for HuffPost, and they captured it so vividly:
Womenâs lives are full of these these âhiddenâ experiences â daily realities that arenât always understood because a world made for men doesnât recognize or acknowledge these situations to give them visibility. But these small moments are real, and they have a lasting impact on women, both positive and negative. We asked a few artists to bring some of these moments to life.
More than just a clothing swap
Clothing swaps have taken off in the last few years for a number of reasons: 1) you score free clothes, obviously, provided you bring in some goods to trade; 2) they help reduce waste and reliance on fast fashion; and, 3) free clothes.
They also offer women (since theyâre mostly organized by and for women) a chance to spend time with others you may or may not know well. Maybe itâs unnerving at first, but if the group is supportive, bonding and belonging can follow. Thatâs what happened to artist Morgan Sea.
Sea created this illustration as âa memory of me, a tall trans lady nervously attending a plus-sized clothing swap and finding kinship among the many types of plus-sized women.â Discovering that connection amongst heaps of clothes is a find you canât put a price on.
Questioning the double standard
Consider an idyllic summer day â the perfect time to head out to the park for a day of lazy reading under the sun. Itâs so hot out; surely it would be fine to go braless under your T-shirt so you can be comfortable?
Not if you want to go unnoticed.
The nipple double standard of male vs. female nipples is well-documented; the palpable discomfort women feel, that men donât, when they go out in public without a bra. Artist Hyunsun Park captured this feeling, asking us to confront the question: why ogle a woman whoâs fully dressed and minding her own business, but completely ignore the topless man going for a jog?
Behind closed bathroom doors
Sometimes, the world thatâs hidden away is one of spontaneous connection, friendship and selfie moments (âcause the light is so good!). Behold, the womenâs bathroom.
Artist Tina Giang brought this moment to life.
Many a fast friendship has been born from a quick stop in the womenâs bathroom on a night out. You tell the girl beside you you love her lipstick and ask her where she got it. Maybe the lineup is SO long, so you strike up a conversation with the woman next in line. Sometimes, a few drinks helps these conversations along, and in an instant, itâs like youâve known each other for years.
There are so many âsecretâ moments we didnât illustrate here, whether theyâre ones that bring us joy, frustration, terror, or love. Which ones does the wider world need to see? Are there any women should keep for themselves? Share your thoughts in the comments below.
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