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You may be tempted to get back at your ex during a separation, but any divorce lawyer will tell you that going out for revenge
In response to my boyfriend's question about "no-nuptials" I said I'd definitely be "open" to the idea. My friend Tara said: "The biggest problem I see with no-nupts is that they draw an invisible emotional boundary between the two of you. And when it comes to creating a serious future with someone, you have to be ALL in, or redefine what you are."
This is not an article about how to get yourself married. It's not about making yourself emotionally available, or putting yourself out there, or not returning calls right away. It's not even about finding the right match for you. I don't really know you. What I can speak to though is how to discern good men from bad.