But it's not that realistic a goal to shoot for.
Well this seems unfair.
One thing they do have in common: they're friggen awesome.
Orgasms don't have to be complicated.
And they don't involve intercourse.
I've always been an advocate for speaking openly about sex and masturbation. I make a point in asking my friends (and mother) who are in long term relationships about their sex lives, partnered or solo. The singles are more likely to offer information, but I'll pester them every once and a while anyways.
But this doesn't mean all men do.