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Don't Blame Motherhood For Lack Of #WomenInTech. The Problem Starts With Girls

It is heartening to hear a whole lot of dialogue and conversation happening around how to get more women in tech and how to help them succeed in their careers and so on. But pardon me everyone, at some point it all started becoming noise and not meaningful conversation. I have good reasons for saying this.
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It is heartening to hear a whole lot of dialogue and conversation happening around how to get more women in tech and how to help them succeed in their careers and so on. But pardon me everyone, at some point it all started becoming noise and not meaningful conversation. I have good reasons for saying this.

Logic tells me that to have more and more women in tech tomorrow, there should be a greater number of girls in tech today. They need to be immersed in technology, science, math, engineering. They need to love those subjects passionately and that is just one part of the tech career story. They also need to make supporting choices in education and career to emerge as technocrats, tech-entrepreneurs and tech-leaders. Are they doing it?

Logic tells me that to have more and more women in tech tomorrow, there should be a greater number of girls in tech today.

I co-founded and ran a venture called Cloud Mentor for five years. We provided hands-on experiential STEM education to school-age children. By hands-on, I mean really hands-on --clamps, nuts and bolts, wires, chemicals, LEDs, transistors, resistors, sensors and a lot many fascinating things in our classrooms. We ran our programs in two formats.

The first was an in-school program -- mandatory for all students. In most school classrooms, there was an equal proportion of boys and girls. All of them enjoyed the experiments and model-making activities equally. We never noticed any trend of either boys or girls being better or faster in applying STEM concepts in building working models or coming up with inventive ideas. That was a good reassurance that innately girls are as well-equipped as boys to handle tech/ STEM subjects. And this was across grades 1 to 9.

We also ran highly popular summer camps in one of the most entrepreneurial and techie neighbourhoods in probably the whole of India. We had between 300-500 children in the age group of 6 to 15 years attending our Summer Camp every year. Now the summer camp enrollment was based on the child's interests – they could choose from an array of about 8-10 different courses and the most sought-after ones were "Junior Engineer" (for ages 7-10) and "Senior Engineer" (for ages 10-15).

In "Junior Engineer" (ages 7-10) batches -- boys and girls were close to 50-50%. In "Senior Engineer" batches, the percentage of girls dropped to less than 10%!

Year after year, I noticed the same trend. In "Junior Engineer" batches -- boys and girls were close to 50-50%. In "Senior Engineer" batches, guess... the percentage of girls dropped to less than 10%! What is it that makes a nine-year old girl suddenly lose interest in engineering courses once she turns 10? There were no girls in most of our Robotics batches for the 10+ age-group. With great difficulty I got some girls to attend our 3-D Printing course and others on Product Design when we launched them first. It was equally difficult to get girls into our Senior Programming and App Development courses, although Junior Coding courses for the 7-10 age-group had a 50% girl population. And remember -- by virtue of our centre's location, we catered to a population comprising predominantly of the best techies and start-up entrepreneurs of India. So there was no reason to believe that such parents would discourage their daughters from enrolling in engineering courses.

So what is stopping our girls from diving into technology and engineering with passion? As mentioned above, it is not for lack of aptitude or of parental encouragement (at least in the environment I mention). Year after year I spoke to hundreds of parents to understand what was happening. Our Kitchen Science courses that involved hands-on cooking were overrun with boys (thanks to the TV show MasterChef!). But girls were hesitating to pick up screw-drivers and a soldering gun and even an App Inventor tutorial after the age of 10-12. They were losing out on the practical skills that could be gained via tinkering, deconstructing gadgets, coding though the night -- all pursuits that make a future garage entrepreneur!

I know for sure that this is real -- most girls mentally retire from tech aspirations at the age of 10!

On the other hand, the trainers in our classrooms were predominantly women. I always hoped that having a woman engineer teach and build STEM-based projects would inspire the girls to wield tools without hesitation. I hope it did have some effect. But what I also noticed was that every time we were on a recruitment drive, we would get tons of applications from women engineers -- electronics, computer science, chemical, telecommunications -- and they were ready to teach 1st grade general science! These were young graduates and I couldn't help asking them why they didn't want to practice what they learned in four years of engineering. They always said that the industry jobs were too hectic and stressful and they were happier teaching. Why did they even do engineering then in the first place?

Two common reasons emerged -- it was just a default choice because which other degree was respectable enough? And secondly, their parents thought match-making with a good "well-settled" engineer groom would be easier if their daughter was an engineer too! This is the harsh reality behind why you have so many girls in engineering colleges and so few in tech company corner offices!

From the many conversations I had with girls' parents (who were just as mystified about the sudden drop of interest in science), I could see the following trends emerge:

1. Fear of being perceived as nerdy: In the prevailing popular culture, nerdy boys are acceptable but geeky girls? Social suicide!

2. Are there other girls?: Rare girls wanting to enroll into engineering courses always enquired if there were other girls in the batch. If not, they would cancel too. I could never figure out how to stop this chicken-egg situation!

3. She'd rather do dance/music/art this summer: Girls on the threshold of teen-age felt this sudden urge to indulge in more "girly" pursuits. It baffled their parents too.

It is not intense passion for the subject, but merely a desire to take a socially acceptable route that brings girls into tech careers...

There are meticulous research-based reports that corroborate my experience. The situation is no different in the best of the universities or economies of the world. There just isn't enough gender diversity in STEM studies and careers. A study across nations on women in engineering says that Indian women, once in college, do complete their engineering education in proportions better than that in the US. The report attributes this to the lack of a hostile/chilly environment towards women in Indian engineering colleges. However it goes on to say that pre-college barriers are more significant for women in India.

Another report, "Why so few women in STEM?" , talks about culturally induced stereotypes, and lower self-confidence among girls about their ability in STEM subjects.

I do not know what to do about this. I know for sure that this is real -- most girls mentally retire from tech aspirations at the age of 10! In most cases after that, it is not intense passion for the subject, but merely a desire to take a socially acceptable route that brings girls into tech careers and no wonder then that they are ready to drop it at any sign of discomfort (exceptional outliers exist too). The so-called "leaky pipeline" of women in STEM starts not when they become mothers as the popular perception is, but much earlier -- on the verge of their adolescence!

Is our popular culture to blame for this? Is it our parenting? Is there something about the workplaces and work culture that needs to change? Are our books, media, stories, role models not conveying the right message? How will we have more women in tech tomorrow if there are no girls in tech today? I'm looking for answers and would love to hear your thoughts.

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