Attorney, graduate of the U.S. Naval Academy, former Marine and airline pilot; co-chair, Forum on the Military Chaplaincy and Elder, PC(USA)
.“Three major institutions stand in the way of LGBT equality – the Military, Marriage and Ministry. Like a three-legged stool of prejudice, when one falls, the rest follow.”
- Tom Carpenter
As an attorney and former United States Marine Corps Captain, Thomas T. Carpenter, Esq., knows all too well what it takes to win a battle.
But his fight for equal treatment of the LGBT community in the military was a personal mission. He served from 1970 to 1976 in the U.S. Marine Corps, piloted the Douglas A-4 Skyhawk, protected the nation as a respected captain, served in the Marine Reserves until 1982 and was forced to camouflage his sexual identity.
More than three decades after his resignation from the U.S. Marine Corps, Mr. Carpenter paved the way for the equal treatment of LGBT service members through his dedication to the repeal of the controversial policy, “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell” (DADT) as current co-chair of the Forum on the Military Chaplaincy(Forum) and former board member of Servicemembers Legal Defense Network (SLDN). Through it all, Mr. Carpenter volunteered countless hours to the effort, drafted white papers that illustrated what the military would be like if policymakers repealed DADT and worked on the implementation plan with 70 veterans that represented all of the military services through the Forum. Mr. Carpenter’s efforts paid off with the repeal of DADT in 2011.
Mr. Carpenter is current co-chair of the Forum, which seeks to provide resources and advocacy to military chaplains who value personal integrity, selfless compassion, respect for others and excellence in leadership. He has served as its co-chair since 2005.
Mr. Carpenter’s commitment to SLDN, a non-partisan, non-profit, legal services, watchdog and policy organization that is dedicated to equality of LGBT service members, is demonstrated through his role on its board of directors from 1995 to 2012. He served as SLDN’s co-chair from 1998 to 2005, its legislative and communications committees, organized the Forum on the Military Chaplaincy and advised SLDN’s Military Advisory Council.
Mr. Carpenter has further empowered LGBT military service members with the founding of OutServe in 2010, the first LGBT active duty organization. He played an instrumental role in OutServe’s merger with SLDN in 2012. Now known as OutServe-SLDN, the advocacy group supports, defends and empowers LGBT service members, veterans and their families and fights for equal treatment in the military. He retired from OutServe-SLDN’s board of directors in 2012.
Mr. Carpenter currently serves as an attorney of LaMontagne and Terhar and is a Partner in Conegy Consultants. He is a frequent blogger of LGBT, military, political and religious issues and has been published on LGBT POV and the Huffington Post. Mr. Carpenter has received numerous awards, including the Anna S. Curren Service Award and is one of OutServe’s Honorary Lifetime Member. He is a distinguished military graduate of the U.S. Naval Academy and graduated from the Golden Gate School of Law in San Francisco.