3 Steps to Prioritizing You


Do you prioritize yourself? What do you do that is a form of self-denial? Do you have a belief that you are not good enough? Each and every moment, you contribute to the belief that you are either worth everything or you are worth nothing. And at the end of the day, your mental and emotional bank balance reflects that belief.

Historically, women have been taught not to prioritize themselves. In fact, not just 50 years ago a home economics book was teaching just how little a woman should prioritize herself in comparison to her "hard working" husband. In this modern day, you have the choice to prioritize you. When you make that choice, it will have a direct contribution or detraction from your success as a woman, and for your business at large. It will also determine the accelerated pace in which you create success in your business, attract new clients and bring in more financial abundance.

Do a quick inventory by asking yourself: Where are you denying yourself? Where are you not saying "Yes" to yourself? If you are not prioritizing yourself, you are in essence holding yourself back. You are settling for less and holding back life expressing itself through you.

You have a choice. You can choose to be your best ally or your worst enemy. Self-betrayal is at the root of all dissatisfaction and lack of passion in life. Be honest with yourself. Are you last on the to-do list because you are too busy taking care of everyone and everything else? No one else will come along and prioritize YOU.

It is your job and yours alone to take a stand for yourself and what you are available for, how you are treated and how you will experience life. There is no time better than today in this moment to stand up and say, "Today, is the day I change my compass and prioritize me"

Here are three steps to get back on track:

1. Commit to a daily self-love and acknowledgement practice. When you wake up in the morning go to the mirror and look deep inside through your eyes and say {your first name} I love you, I really, really love you!

2. Journal 5 things every day that you honor and appreciate about yourself. Take it inside and feel it. Really feel it.

3. Identify 3 new self-honoring boundaries that you will implement. Then stick to them.

Stop buying into the concept of lack when it comes to prioritizing your most important commodity, yourself.

Rebecca Matias is an intuitive business coach, author and inspirational speaker who supports passionate, high-achieving women entrepreneurs eliminate the patterns and subconscious beliefs that hold them back, so they can break through to their next level of success. Rebecca takes a fierce, laser-focused approach to helping women create 6-7 figure businesses and lives they love because she believes that "when women are financially empowered, the world changes for the better." Rebecca is a proud mother of two amazing boys and is committed to rocking her life out in every area to live her highest potential. www.RebeccaMatias.com