How do you REALLY know if the guy you've been dating is "playing the field"?
Most women overlook the tell-tale signs...and then become surprised, shocked, or disappointed when they find out he's been keeping his options open the whole time.
Do yourself a favor and check out this video where you'll discover the 5 signs he's seeing other women:
Once a man is committed to you then he won't even have eyes for other women. It's just that simple.
However, just because he might be entertaining other options in the beginning, it doesn't mean you can't make him yours exclusively.
It might just take time for you to get him to open up and allow himself to connect with you on a deeper level.
Either way, you deserve to know what's going on when you're seeing someone--because this knowledge gives YOU the power to set the "frame" of your relationship, and not the other way around.
PS: Want to know the EASIEST way to essentially guarantee that he'll have eyes for you and ONLY you? Click HERE to learn how to "trigger" his deepest Emotional Attraction
Summary
1. You're not in a committed relationship with him.
If he hasn't said the words, "I'm not seeing anyone else," don't assume he isn't. Chances are nowadays, if a guy is not in a committed relationship with you, he's probably dating and talking to lots of other women, just like you should be talking to other guys as well.
It doesn't mean you have to be sleeping with a ton of other guys. It means you should be talking to other guys and keeping your options open. Then, of course, once you both declare that you are in a committed relationship, it becomes exclusive.
2. He won't hang out with you on the weekend.
Let me tell you Sexy Confidence ladies something right now. You do not want to be the Tuesday night rotational girl.
I repeat, you do not want to be the Tuesday night rotational girl.
If he's only hanging out with you during the week and then disappears on the weekends, chances are he's going out and meeting new girls to fill his dating pipeline. You are the Tuesday night girl.
3. He freaks out if you even go near his phone.
Sketchy dudes are sketchy about their phones because that's where sketchy shit takes place.
But, ladies, please don't be the NSA hacking into his phone to see what he's doing. If you're not in a relationship with the guy, you don't have a right to know what he does with his phone.
And if you are in a relationship with a guy and you can't trust him enough to refrain from snooping through all his text messages, it's time to reconsider the relationship.
4. His answer is always "maybe" and he never really wants to commit to any plans.
If he's only saying "maybe" to you, he's actively searching for some other girl to say "yes" to him.
And then when she says no to him, he says yes to you.
5. You're always accusing him of seeing other girls.
Listen, relationships require trust. If you constantly don't trust him and keep nagging about him seeing other women, he's not going to put up with that shit.
So the moral of the story is -- if you're just talking to the guy in a casual situation, you know what? Assume he's seeing other women. If you're not happy with that situation, sit him down and have a conversation. Tell him he needs to be committed or you move on. Finally, if you are in a committed relationship, it's going well, and he hasn't given you any reasons not to trust him, you've got to trust him.
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