Once you’ve gotten through the divorce process there are a few pitfalls you need to be ready for. Especially if you have kids
Your kids will keep asking why you got divorced.
Decide what you want to say to your kids and stick to it. They will ask at unexpected times in new and interesting ways. They’ll ask one night when they don’t know that you’re really pissed at your ex. This is not the time to vent and spill all. Keep it simple and keep yourself together. Know what your stance and stay the course.