7 Traits of The Ideal Travel Companion

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Traveling more is on everyone’s wish list, but finding the perfect traveling companion should be a close second. Exploring a new place is exhilarating, but with the wrong person it can be a very different experience. Whiny and fussy travelers ruin it for everybody around them, and having different expectations of the trip can turn your dream destination into a little bit of hell. If you are considering inviting someone to come along on your next adventure (or you want to become the perfect travel companion), consider these seven traits.

1. A good attitude

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Have you ever been out on the weekend with someone with a sour attitude? They complain about everything; the drinks aren’t good enough, the music is too loud, and they cant seem to come out of their funk. Your job becomes cheering them up rather than enjoying yourself. It is the same when traveling; Travel makes for lots of changed plans such as missed flights, late trains, and canceled hostel reservations. Having someone with a puss on the entire time will make those circumstances feel ten times worse, so choose wisely and travel with someone who has a go-with-the-flow approach, and knows how to find the humor in everything.

2. They don't need baby-sitting

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This is something we often neglect to consider. Going away with someone means you are likely going to be with them 24 hours a day, so you will undoubtedly need some breaks. Pick someone who doesn’t need to be tended to constantly, and is confident enough to go off on their own for a day every few days. This also includes someone who you can be completely (and peacefully), silent around. Uncomfortable silences have no place in your travels.

3. They know how to take a great picture

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You’ve been dreaming of Instagraming a photo of yourself on top of the Argentinian mountains with The Andes behind you with your hair looking totally cute for a whole year. You know the shot you want to get, and it’s guaranteed to get at least 100 likes. But what happens if your buddy doesn’t understand framing and chops off the top of the mountain, or worse, lets the tourist couple a few feet away photobomb your instafame moment? Most people wouldn’t think about this as an issue, but travel with someone who dislikes taking the time to take a good photo and you will quickly realize, it is very important. At the very least, have a conversation beforehand and set some ground rules.


About the author: Deborah Stachelski is a freelance Travel and Design journalist based in Austin, Texas. You can follow along with her on Instagram @deborahstachelski, Twitter @DebStachelski, or SocietyLetters.com