It may seem like a bit of a contradiction -- waiting for marriage to have sex within a culture that doesn't even fully extend those rights to queer people.
But to these men in Arielle Scarcella's latest video, that idea means something a little different. In "Gay Virgins Til Marriage," the lesbian vlogger sits down with two gay men whose views about sex and relationships differ from the majority of those in the gay community.
"I save sex for marriage because I believe it is much more than an act of pleasure," one interviewee tells Scarcella. "I believe sex is first and foremost a bonding mechanism, both physiologically and spiritually. So I find that the morality of sex is in the way we use or abuse that bonding mechanism."
Check out the video above to hear more.