Boomers Take a Bow -- Time for Your Encore Career

2013-12-27-Ellen_Dolgen_Menopause_Monday.jpgSeems like when you’re raising kids or climbing the career ladder, it’s all about checking off ‘to do’ lists.  Constant activity, travel, ballgames and baby-sitters can make your head spin.  Suddenly, you’re done.  The kids leave the nest; your career is winding down, leaving you to wonder, what’s next?

You are not alone.  It’s estimated that there are nearly 40 million women focused on what I like to call their encore career.  After leading a full life, you probably still have 20-40 years ahead of you.  It’s time to pursue your passion, using your hard-earned wisdom as the foundation that writes your next story.

Summer and Menopause:  Peri-retirement and Reflection

Menopause is a powerful catalyst to look at your own life, especially after taking care of everybody else’s!  Your might still be caretaking--we are the sandwich generation--but long summer days, even with hot flashes, offer time to take pause and reflect on what’s next for the central character--you!  It starts with taking all the time you need to examine what you’ve done.  That will serve as a springboard toward discovering your real purpose and joy.

After years of running the kids to all of their practices, ferrying snacks to games and holding down a full-time job, it is finally time to let go and follow your own path and passion.

Give Yourself a Break!

Research shows that self-compassion goes a long way toward lessening the physical symptoms of menopause.  When you feel better you think better.   Find your perfect space, whether it’s some nice shade outside, a meditation room--or even the front seat of your car to think about what’s next. 

That can be daunting--after all you’re wiser, but do you still have what it takes?  Some studies flat out show that motherhood affects wage earning, and that’s okay, because what’s different at this time of life, is that an encore career is not all about the bucks. 

A television broadcast friend of mine used to call this, ‘One for the meal and one for the reel,’ meaning she did some news stories for the paycheck and others because she was insanely interested in the subject matter.  Funny thing happened along the way--doing something because you love it somehow ensures life’s bits and pieces fall into place--and the money soon follows.

Life Experience Rocks!

Everything you’ve done in your life can be a brick in building your encore career.  Try to get your mind off hot flashes and insomnia.  Difficult, because the focus in menopause research is almost always on the physical and learning how to ‘deal with menopause,’ and life experience is sometimes not even considered by many doctors when treating menopausal women.  Time to flip menopause on its ear and start embracing this ‘time of your life.’

Know when it’s time to retreat into your own sanctuary and rethink how you’ll approach life’s adventures.  In addition to ‘alone time,’ call upon the sisterhood for advice because it’s proven that friendship is a powerful bond which strengthens your immune system and helps you live longer.  Sharing plans for your next chapter will clarify things!  It really helps to know how others approach their own third act.

Jeri enjoyed a long career as teacher and principal, but she feared retirement because of the associated boredom and lack of a firm schedule.

She stayed in the same career field and let colleagues know she was ‘back on the market.’  Then, the offers came in and she says it was the greatest feeling to still be wanted!  Now, as a university mentor, she serves as an encourager for others and says that is what brings her renewed purpose and joy.

“I look forward to this next chapter because finally it will be about ME and what I want.  My children are raised, my husband is happy.  Time to relax!”

Time has a way of creeping up on you and it’s better to choose your next chapter, rather than falling into it or having it thrust upon you.  Look at it this way--from now on, your ‘to do’ lists will be all about things you want to do, not have to do!

Suffering in Silence is Out!  Reaching Out is In!
For more by Ellen Dolgen, click here.

For more on women's health, click here.

Ellen Dolgen is an outspoken women's health and wellness advocate, menopause awareness expert, author, and speaker.

After struggling with her own severe menopause symptoms and doing years of research, Ellen resolved to share what she learned from experts and her own trial and error. Her goal was to replace the confusion, embarrassment, and symptoms millions of women go through-before, during, and after menopause-with the medically sound solutions she discovered. Her passion to become a "sister" and confidant to all women fueled Ellen's first book, Shmirshky: the pursuit of hormone happiness. As a result of the overwhelming response from her burgeoning audiences and followers' requests for empowering information they could trust, Ellen's weekly blog, Menopause MondaysTM, was born.

Menopause MondaysTM is a platform from which Ellen reaches the true needs of her readers through varied and substantive discussions of menopause, women's health, and the modern woman's life today as a menopausal woman. Her weekly newsletter provides readers the most current menopause news and research. With her updates, women gain access and the knowledge needed to take charge of their health and happiness. Her motto is: Suffering in silence is OUT! Reaching out is IN!

In addition to Ellen's ever-growing social media presence, has fast become "the place" on the web for informative and entertaining women's menopause and wellness engagement. Ellen is #1 on Dr. Oz Top 10 Social HealthMakers on Menopause. In 2012, 2013 and 2014, / Menopause Mondays was named first on the list of the "Best Menopause Blogs" by Healthline. Ellen is also a regular contributor to over a dozen leading women's health blogs.

Like Ellen Dolgen on Facebook, follow her on Twitter and Pinterest, connect with her on LinkedIn, Google+, and Klout, watch her videos on YouTube, and subscribe to her newsletter.