Something Wasn’t Right
Back in 2009, after talking with three different doctors, I finally went in for a “cyst drainage” on September 24, 2009. I felt a lump, but since I was young and had recently had a baby, doctors were not very concerned. The doctors thought my lump was either a cyst or a clogged milk duct from pregnancy. I did not feel right. I could not tell you exactly what was wrong, but I knew something was off with my body. Finally, a general surgeon agreed to drain the “cyst” for my peace of mind.
Draining the “Cyst”
At the cyst draining procedure, the cyst did not drain. Hum? The doctor said it was most likely a fibroadenoma, a benign (non-cancer) tumor. Per protocol, the doctor ordered a biopsy just to be sure. Well, you know what happened next.
On September 25, 2009, I got the call. I actually had a playgroup going on at that time. There were a few other women and their kids at our house. I am sure they will always remember that day too.
Breast Cancer Diagnosis
I was diagnosed with aggressive triple negative, stage one breast cancer. I also have the BRCA1 gene mutation. On account of all of those things, I had a bilateral mastectomy (with reconstruction) and four rounds of chemo.
Breast Cancer Survivor Cancerversary – 7 Years Later
Fast forward seven years later, and here I am, celebrating my Breast Cancer Survivor Cancerversary. Seven years is a big deal for triple negative breast cancer survivors. Getting past the five year mark is considered a major milestone.
Although, I still have some lingering effects of the chemotherapy, Neulasta shot (for low blood count), or surgery, I can’t complain. I’m here. I have been able to watch my kids grow up, attend family gatherings, and hang out with friends. That’s what it’s all about, right?
In the last seven years, I have cheered for my kids in sports games, run a few half marathons, attended weddings and Bar Mitzvahs, taken family vacations and romantic getaways with my husband, enjoyed and danced to live music (especially from one of my favorite Austin bands, The Brew), attended my 20-year high school reunion, and so much more!
I’m still not out of the woods, though I can see the light peeking through the trees. Yes, I still havescanxiety. I have check ups every few months and get anxiety before, during, and after medical tests. I still have more surgeries in my future because of my BRCA mutation. This is all scary stuff, but I take it one day at a time and try to enjoy each day to the fullest. I am thankful for these seven years and hope for many more.
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