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Just Because Some People Are Screaming 'The Sky Is Falling' Doesn't Mean Your Name Is Chicken Little

For every loss, we, as unlimited spiritual beings, have both the power and potential to invent a new wheel, create another source of fire, mine previously unexplored inner forms of gold.
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When the Eastern systems of self-healing examine health and balance, they offer a very different paradigm than our more familiar "Western" point of view. The differences are most noticeable and significant when it comes to understanding the nature of the individual life and the life of the collective.

This philosophy is not just limited to the comprehensive understanding of an individual's physical well-being. It applies to every aspect of a person's life. What is experientially, emotionally and perceptually toxic to one person could be liberating to another. There is not one accepted standard that will equally measure every nuance of every person's life. The "average person" does not exist in Eastern philosophy. Each person, each case, is unique... a completely separate reality unto itself.

So it is when it comes to career development and the turmoil in our present job market. The media has dominated the intellectual landscape with reports of dire changes, catastrophic employment shifts and unsustainable economic losses. "How will I ever find a job when millions of people are out of work? My world situation is dire, catastrophic and unsustainable. Hey, where have I heard that before?" Just because CNN is selling across the board economic fear doesn't mean you have to buy it. You have free will. And, that may not be your universe.

While the need to live within one's means is not disputed, what is debilitating in one person's reality may actually be liberating and powerfully transformative in another's. Shaking up the status quo is an opportunity to make different choices, to take another career path. Just because the news tells you everyone is losing their jobs does not mean you have the whole story. Human evolution allows old, tired and outdated methods of expansion to die out. If life has offered you a new set of circumstances, it is nature's way of saying, "You are ready to grow in a new direction; there is nothing left for you in the old way; move on." Focus on breakthrough by taking and making the most of this fortuitous event rather than being paralyzed by breakdown from lamenting the loss of what you have grown beyond.

Your neighbors lost their jobs and are in crisis. Does that mean there is a career crisis in your world? You are a universe unto yourself. That employment setback may be your neighbors' next biggest opportunity to re-evaluate their lives and what is important to them. It does not mean you need to bookmark or other online headhunters or spend sleepless nights worrying about your job security. There is not one developmental driving reality that visits all people simultaneously.

The outer world conditions again reflect the inner world conditions. What that means is just because some people get the flu, doesn't mean everyone on the planet is sick or even going to get sick. When you refuse to accept change when it appears in your microcosmic universe, you have not only opened the door to suffering, but also personally invited it in, offered it drinks and a comfortable place to stay. The details of life on Earth will always be changing; that is the nature of this impermanent world. Nothing here stays for long.

Everything on the planet has a shelf life. What were the only consistent career choices a hundred years ago vs. today's world? Very few. The job you thought was a safe and secure employment two years ago may not even exist today. Even the pace of change has gained speed and momentum. The more we as a global community advance, the faster these changes will take place.

At our finest, we are designed to be flexible, resilient, open to change and sensitive to growth potential. The paradox of the human experience is that we are built for rapid and sudden adaptation, but we want everything perfectly organized and in its place, and we want it to all stay that way or else! Just because we are created to go with the mutable flow does not make us immune to primitive responses such as rigidity, fearfulness, inflexibility and unreasonable stubbornness. Just because we have achieved a specific quality of livelihood doesn't mean there will not be an opportunity to upgrade and evolve to the next level. Just because some people are screaming the sky is falling doesn't mean your name is "Chicken Little."

Technology and how we relate to reality is changing so rapidly, how could we possibly imagine that job descriptions and positions would not change at the same rate to accommodate these new, more effective variations? When job loss is at an all-time high, it is an invitation to reinvent ourselves, our skills and talents, and to dare to explore the dreams and potentials that have lived outside of our previous comfort zone, our occupationally-challenged box. Imagine what the world would be like if computers were suppressed because they were going to displace millions of people's jobs. Steve Jobs of Apple wouldn't have had a job or a company. I guess that would make him just Steve or Steve Jobless.

For every loss, we, as unlimited spiritual beings, have both the power and potential to invent a new wheel, create another source of fire, mine previously unexplored inner forms of gold. After all, this planet was constructed so that we could realize and unfold the evolution of our souls. While living in an environment that was manifested solely for the purpose of our awakening to the reality of our unlimited true nature, words like loss, failure, useless and unwanted really need to be redefined. What also require redefining are ideas like success, valuable and a willingness to experience the present moment as an opportunity to move forward.

"Success is not a place at which one arrives but rather the spirit with which one undertakes and continues the journey." -- Author Unknown.

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