When You Say You 'Don't See Race', You're Ignoring Racism, Not Helping To Solve It

When You Say You 'Don't See Race', You're Ignoring Racism, Not Helping To Solve It
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People love to tell me that they often forget that I’m black. They say this with a sort of “a-ha!” look on their faces, as if their dawning ability to see my blackness was a gift to us both.

When I point out that their eyesight had never left them, that my skin has never changed colors, and that they probably did not really forget that I am black, they inevitably get defensive. First, they try to argue that it was a compliment; the smart ones quickly realize that complimenting someone on not being black is actually pretty racist, so they switch gears.

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