It's that time again. Election year politicking has begun.
With social media being a part of most everyone's day, the attack memes and Repubs vs. Demos and vice versa has started en force. I've already had three or four friends threaten to un-friend or un-follow anyone who posts hate-filled political stuff.
But is it really the political stuff that's bad? Or is it how our "friends" handle and reply to political posts? Is there a softer, gentler way to handle politics in social media? I hope so, because in past years, my feeds have gotten pretty ugly.
Without a scientific study or expert opinions, here are some general rules of common courtesy you can follow in order to keep political posts (or any other topics, too) a little more "friend"-ly.
- "Be the change you wish to see in the world." Gandhi's advice can work in any situation. Since you can't change how others act or what they write on social media, the only thing you can change is how YOU respond.
"We live our lives looking through filters created by our programming and conditioned beliefs," says Los Angeles, Calif. Clinical Psychologist Cynthia Stevens, Ph.D. "Our 'lens of interpretation' is often heavily clouded when we engage our political body. It is essential that we discipline ourselves when speaking politically if we want to see and experience results."
If none of the tips above pertain to a specific situation, as my parents used to say, "If you can't say anything nice, don't say anything at all." Many political memes are meant to rile people up and piss them off. Don't take the bait.
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