It's the reason getting over people is pure hell.
In your head, all you're thinking about is how great they were, and all the great things they did and how the greatness shined off them like a beacon of relationship light. GREAT.
But the reality, as BuzzFeed's Ali Vingiano shows, is vastly different.
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