In the previous HP article, we discussed how to find out "the type of man you were meant to love." For men, we now discuss the type of woman you were meant to love.
Have you ever said to a friend, "She's such a fabulous woman! She has lots of the qualities I love about my mother. I'm sure she'd make a great partner, but she just doesn't excite me." Or, "On paper, she's the perfect woman in so many ways. But I just don't feel real passion for her!"
There is, often, a difference between being attracted to someone because you see their fine qualities...versus feeling a more meaningful, lasting passion and love for them.
Why is that?
Look to Your Horoscope for Answers
The planets in your birth chart can tell you a great deal about who will be attractive to you in a traditional sense, as well as inspire your love and passion. Here are the planets that affect your attraction to another person.
In a man's chart, his Moon Sign is the best indicator of the type of woman he sees, in a "traditional" sense, as his life partner and the potential mother of his children; and as fitting the feminine image he is most comfortable with on an emotional level. His Venus Sign indicates the kind of woman he's romantically attracted to, will enjoy and love very deeply.
Of course, it's a wonderful if two people have compatible Sun and Moon sign connections. But as a man, if you want to know the kind of woman who would inspire your love and excite you, find out what sign in your horoscope - your MOON & VENUS are in. (At the end of this article, you can learn how to find which sign your Moon and Venus are in your horoscope.)
For Men - Here Are the 12 Signs Your Moon & Venus May Be In
After you learn the sign your Moon & Venus are in, look at the description below to learn about the qualities of a woman you will be attracted to as a romantic partner, and the type you're most suited to have an intimate relationship of love and passion.
If Your Moon or Venus are in Aries - You're attracted to a bold, independent woman who assertively goes after what she wants (especially if it's you). Her impulsive nature is appealing. You're likely to respect and encourage her to be her own person. You are turned on if she competes with you in games or sports, especially if she gives you a good match (even though you want to win). A fiery, passionate woman excites you. You enjoy being pursued or even seduced by her.
If Your Moon or Venus are in Taurus - You're attracted to an easy-going, earthy woman who is affectionate and likes to cuddle and kiss. You're drawn to her if she has a pleasant voice. You like a feminine female and find the "scent of a woman" arousing and sensual. It's a turn on if she enjoys great food, enjoyable music, loves nature and the outdoors. You feel sensual pleasure and emotional comfort with a woman who likes physical touch, affection and engaging in frequent passionate sex.
If Your Moon or Venus are in Gemini - You're attracted to a witty, interesting woman with a quick tongue, who stimulates your mind with great conversation, and doesn't bore you. Great communication is what's most important to you. You're drawn to a woman who is both a good talker and good listener. Curiosity keeps you interested, so a complex woman intrigues and engages you. Words are important to you, so you're sexually aroused by a woman who flirts with you; or tells you she loves you. You enjoy talking "dirty" in the bedroom.
If Your Moon or Venus are in Cancer - You're attracted to a woman who will comfort, care for you, and take care of your needs (i.e. who "mothers" you). It's a plus if she reminds you of your mother. Sharing a home with a woman makes you feel wanted and secure. You like the idea of being her protector and taking care of her, too. The nostalgic part of you yearns for an "old-fashioned girl," who you can share a house and create a family. You're sexually attracted to a woman with large breasts.
If Your Moon or Venus are in Leo - You're attracted to a striking or gorgeous woman whose glamorous manner make you proud to be with her. The fact that she's a bit of a drama queen is part of what you like. You're easily enticed by a woman who flatters your ego with compliments and praise. You need a woman who makes you feel admired and respected (and never criticizes). She must make you feel like a king by lavishing lots of attention and affection on you in an out of bed.
If Your Moon or Venus are in Virgo - You're attracted to a woman who looks neat, well-groomed and is conservatively dressed. You are drawn to her if she's honest, intelligent, practical, modest and loyal. You look for the perfect woman; if she's not, you're open to fixing her to make her more perfect. You can fall in love with a woman who becomes useful to you in ways that make her indispensable. You are turned sexually, if she's an earthy and skillful lover behind closed doors.
If Your Moon or Venus are in Libra - You're attracted to a pretty woman who is charming and feminine. While you seek harmony in a relationship, you have a need to engage in argument or conflict from time-to-time to keep your relationship interesting. You're not interested in a woman who is rude or crude. You are very turned onto a woman who is sensuous and romantic. She enjoys lighting a candle, putting on some romantic music and curling up on a couch with you, which is her invitation to make love.
If Your Moon or Venus are in Scorpio - You're attracted to an intense, passionate and strong-willed woman who seems both mysterious and powerful. Your connection to her brings into play psychological power struggles where one or both of you vie for control. You only respect a partner who can stand up to your strong personality. You're likely to test a woman you're romantically attracted and demand absolute fidelity. Sexuality is important to your relationship, so you are enticed by a woman who exudes a raw animal magnetism or an overly sexual appearance.
If Your Moon or Venus are in Sagittarius - You're attracted to a woman who is smart, honest and direct with a good sense of humor. She can be playful one minute and philosophical the next. You like a woman who is adventurous, into the outdoors, even athletic. You may be especially attracted to her if she's a foreigner of another culture. You need a great deal of independence, so you seek a woman who will give you your freedom. You enjoy platonic friendships and casual sex until you're totally committed.
If Your Moon or Venus are in Capricorn - You're attracted to a woman (often younger) who you see as being socially acceptable, enhancing your status, and even boosting your career. Or, you may be attracted to a powerful career woman (even an older one) who has attained great success. You are careful about taking emotional risks until you're certain that a woman is seriously committed to you. You are turned on when a woman is prim and proper in public but behind closed doors is earthy and hot in bed.
If Your Moon or Venus are in Aquarius - You're attracted to a woman who is independent, free-spirited and can be your friend. It's important to you that she be intellectually interesting, opened minded and willing to try doing things she's never done before. She's especially exciting if she's rather unconventional, even offbeat. You're attracted to her if she's an idealist and even a rebel. You avoid a woman who is a drama-queen. Your ideal woman is sexually exciting because she's willing to experiment when you make love.
If Your Moon or Venus are in Pisces - You're attracted to a woman who is feminine, romantic and emotionally sensitive, even passive. Her caring nature makes you feel secure. She's especially appealing if she appears mysterious or confused, yet compassionate. You are drawn to her if you see her as someone you can care for and "save," (or who might save you). Sexually, you seek a sensuous woman who is imaginative and bewitching in the bedroom, able to bring fantasy into your sex life.
If you're interested in a happy, long-lasting relationship, your horoscope can help you understand the type of person who attracts you in a traditional sense, as well as inspires your love and passion.
To learn what sign your SUN and MARS are in, use the Free Transit Calculator and enter your birth date. It will compute your personal transits for 2016 and the planets in your birth chart. Then, make sure to scroll down to the end of the page, where you'll see your planets and the signs they're in. Then, match them up with the description in this article.
And, if you're curious to learn more about your personal Horoscope and what it says about your love relationships, and marriage prospects, as well as career, investments and health in 2016: Order your customized Report: Your Horoscope & Future in 2016.
If you're already in love and want to find out if you're really compatible for marriage (or partnership) with another person, go to the FREE Love Compatibility Calculator and enter your birth date and theirs. And, if you want a customized report on your compatibility together, order Your Love Compatibility Report.
Larry Schwimmer is an astrologer in private practice. For private consultations, contact him at: Larry@astrodecision.com or go to www.AstroDecision.com
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