Most of us strive to be team players, getting along with colleagues and contributing to a harmonious atmosphere at work. That said, there will be times when we disagree with someone else's opinion in the office. While serving on a committee, working on a group project or interacting with others in virtually any capacity, opinions don't always perfectly align. When this occurs, healthy dialogue can be especially productive, helping both parties to learn something new or understand a different perspective before a final decision is made.
It is possible to express a difference of opinion respectfully and positively. Here are five ways to politely disagree:
- Keep the emotion out of the discussion. Our views are often based on our personal experience and can be deeply ingrained. When others have ideas that contradict our beliefs, it can feel like a personal attack. Resist the tendency to make it about who's right and who's wrong. Focus on the facts as you listen objectively and explain your thoughts. Patience also falls under this category. Even if the appropriate path seems perfectly obvious, you won't sway others with a disparaging tone.
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