Hey, Stressed Parent! Let's Beat The Math Homework Blues

Have you ever found yourself going round and round in circles when trying to help your child with math? You’ve checked the example, asked your child how the teacher explained the work in class, and even resorted to teaching the topic from scratch.Yet still your child doesn’t get it! We’ve all been there! As a math teacher, math blogger and lover of math, here are a list of strategies that I use as a parent and a tutor to help my kids build a strong foundation in math and beat the math homework blues!

1. Figure out what they should know

Dig out those emails from your child’s teacher and see if you’ve been given a list of topics that your child will learn over the week, month, semester or year. That way you’ll at least be able to mentally prepare in advance for tricky topics. If you can’t find the information from the school, see if you can find the list of topics online for your child’s state. Another tip is to go to the book store, bricks and mortar, or online and check the contents pages for workbooks for your child’s grade level. When looking at a particular topic. It’s often a good idea to check that your child is confident with that topic at previous grades levels too. For example, if you’re child is struggling with long division, check to make sure they know their times tables and division facts and are also strong at multi digit subtraction, all skills necessary to confidently tackle long division.

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2. Research math education tips

Do lots of research. My Maths Insider blog is obviously a good place to start. I’ve got lots of articles about how to help your child with math. There are also some great Facebook groups and pages that highlight tips and articles that you can use at home with your child. You can also head on over to websites and blogs aimed at teachers. Look out for lessons that can be modified for use with just a few children. You should also check out the Bedtime Math website for daily short math story problems. A great resource for building up story problem skills.

3. Pick suitable math resources

Pick resources that suit you and your child. You’ve each got your own strengths and weaknesses, so if your child has been at school all day, where they are likely to have done lots of writing, don’t expect them to happily do lots and lots of worksheets. Maybe pick something that’s an app or a printable board game or just some oral questions. If your child is a fan of Lego, look for math resources and activities with that theme. There are also some great websites that highlight cool “real life” math problems such as “Which Pizza Deal is Better”.

4. Learn the math with your child

The final tip is to learn with your child. If you need to help your child with addition of fractions with different denominators, then go through the process of actually learning how to add fractions with different denominators with your child from scratch. Google “Adding fractions with different denominators Common Core grade 4” and see what videos and/or images available. Select a few and share them with your child, telling them “Look I’m not really sure about this, but let’s learn this together.” Move away from the “I know everything and you know nothing” situation, and move towards a “OK - there is a problem here. Let’s figure this out together.” situation.

By narrowing down math topics to work on, researching and bookmarking articles and tips and learning alongside your child, you’ll soon be well on your way to beating the math homework blues.

Caroline Mukisa is an instructor at Tabtor Math - a math program that combines the power of a Tablet with the guidance of a Tutor. She shares advice to help parents support their kids math on her Maths Insider website She'd also love to welcome you to join her inside the Maths Insider Community Facebook group a supportive place for parents to share cool math resources and ideas.

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