Parenting

How I Learned To Stop Fretting And Just Raise The Kids

05/22/2014 01:29pm ET | Updated May 22, 2014

A few years ago, when my oldest son was a junior in high school and I still believed parents could actually affect the outcome of the tedious, soul-crushing process known as applying to college, I had lunch with a woman we’ll call Jennifer. I met Jennifer at the urging of a mutual friend, who promised that Jennifer knew all the “secrets” to getting a child into the elite institution of his choice.