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How to Add Charming Details for a Sweet, Southern Wedding

Nothing says the South more than a glass of sweet tea. Especially ideal for summer weddings, drink stations filled with refreshing iced tea will offer a soothing beverage for your guests during the ceremony, cocktail hour, or reception.
09/09/2015 09:39am ET | Updated December 6, 2017
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There's something so lovely about the South -- and especially Southern weddings. The thought of warm summers spent on the porch sipping sweet tea evokes a sense of calm, even in the midst of wedding planning. And, if you are in fact planning a wedding in a Southern state, there's a good chance you'll want to offer this same sense of peace and comfort to your loved ones throughout the celebration.

From serving comfort foods and homemade pies, to utilizing monograms and oak tree motifs, there are plenty of ways to add a Southern homestyle twist to any affair. Whether you're hosting your celebration in the South or hope to infuse some Southern charm and hospitality into your wedding elsewhere, we've put together 15 ways to incorporate a taste of the South into your event. Have more ideas? Share your thoughts in the comments!

1. Choose a Southern Setting

A charming lakeside setting is the perfect place to say "I do." The serene ceremony space can be set up under shady trees, or in an open field flooded with sunlight. Decorating the site with a wooden ceremony arch and aisle can add a bit of rustic flair to an alfresco setting regardless of location. 2015-08-26-1440626872-5402834-01_BylerSmidt_MichaelCarrPhotography.jpg Photo by Michael Carr Photography; Wedding Planning/Event Design by Ann Whittington. See more of the wedding here.

2. Incorporate an Oak Tree Motif

A symbol of the South, oak trees are often used in wedding motifs since they symbolize strength in love and life. In the case of this couple's wedding invitation, the mighty oak also represented the Southern location of their wedding. 2015-08-26-1440620311-2668094-02_StallardDavis_AdriennePage21.jpeg Photo by Adrienne Page. See more of the wedding here.

3. Offer Sweet Tea to Guests

Nothing says the South more than a glass of sweet tea. Especially ideal for summer weddings, drink stations filled with refreshing iced tea will offer a soothing beverage for your guests during the ceremony, cocktail hour, or reception. For an even more Southern twist, offer mason jars instead of traditional glassware. 2015-08-26-1440620347-3082819-03_FrandsenMonroe_MegPerotti1.jpgPhoto by Meg Perotti. See more of the wedding here.

4. Decorate the Ceremony with Magnolia Leaves

This lakefront wedding ceremony featured an arch made of magnolia leaves, which are prevalent in Southern areas. The distinct golden brown and emerald green hues of the leaves are perfect for a rustic wedding with a Southern flair. 2015-08-26-1440620384-6267064-04_HuntRaughton_VuePhotography2.jpgPhoto by Vue Photography. See more of the wedding here.

5. Wear Cowboy Boots

Whether you want to show off your Southern style with cowboy boots in a short dress, or keep them hidden beneath a long gown, stylish boots are more comfortable than traditional wedding shoes and are perfect for brides and bridesmaids who want to stay true to their country roots. 2015-08-26-1440620849-4373239-05_KlingamanSugarek_StephenKarlisch.jpgPhoto by Karlisch Studio; Wedding Planning/Event Design by DFW Events. See more of the wedding here.

6. Provide Southern Goodie Bags

Since guests were coming from across the country to attend their celebration in Charleston, South Carolina, this couple provided out-of-towners with welcome bags filled with Southern goodies including pralines, Charleston Chews, and biscuits. Fill your own welcome bags with local favorites that pay homage to the South. 2015-08-26-1440620925-4963789-06_StallardDavis_AdriennePage.jpegPhoto by Adrienne Page. See more of the wedding here.

7. Serve Fried Southern Hors d'Oeuvres

From fried chicken to fried pickles, the South is known for their delectable crispy comfort foods. Even if your dinner menu features elegant formal fare, you can still offer Southern favorites as passed hors d'oeuvres during the cocktail hour! 2015-08-26-1440622420-4149932-07_HuntRaughton_VuePhotography31.jpgPhoto by Vue Photography. See more of the wedding here.

8. Serve Drinks in Mason Jars

To instantly add Southern style to your wedding, serve drinks in mason jars tied with raffia ribbon. Not only are they easy for guests to hold as beverage containers, but they also make for adorable DIY centerpieces. 2015-08-26-1440618536-6536689-08_WhiteJaeckle_ImagesbyBerit.jpgPhoto by Images by Berit, Inc. See more of the wedding here.

9. Select a Southern-Inspired Signature Cocktail

Pay homage to your hometown with a Southern cocktail, such as The Sazerac. This couple showcased the tasty beverage by listing its ingredients in gold foil on a coaster during the cocktail hour. 2015-08-26-1440618312-164840-09_ThiergartONeill_6ofFour.jpegPhoto by 6 of Four Photography. See more of the wedding here.

10. Add Monogram Details

Preppy Southern style is all about the monogram, and luckily, there are plenty of ways to incorporate your monogram into wedding décor. From gobo lighting on the dance floor, to embroidery on linen dinner napkins, to invitations and signs, the options are endless. 2015-08-26-1440618498-788589-12_WoodBosworth_ChrismanStudios.jpegPhoto by Chrisman Studios. See more of the wedding here.

11. Design a Southern Wedding Centerpiece

This couple's Southern wedding featured tall silver urn centerpieces filled with orchids and foliage native to the South, including magnolia leaves, wispy willow, cat tails, and freshly picked cotton. 2015-08-26-1440618247-5725257-13_ThiergartONeill_6ofFour4.jpeg
Photo by 6 of Four Photography. See more of the wedding here.

12. Offer Homemade Pie Favors

Send guests home with homemade pies baked in mason jars like actress Keri Lynn Pratt, whose mother created the delicious treats. For a rustic touch, introduce desserts using a chalkboard sign. (For more chalkboard sign ideas, click here.) 2015-08-26-1440618211-63115-14_PrattBarneson_JanaWilliams.jpgPhoto by Jana Williams Photography. See more of the wedding here.

13. Choose State-Shaped Wedding Favors

Show your state pride with wedding favors! This couple celebrated the groom's home state of Texas by sending loved ones home with pralines in the shape of the Southern state. 2015-08-26-1440618182-4152228-15_HooperLaw_SteveSteinhardt.jpgPhoto by Steve Steinhardt; Calligraphy by Laura Hooper Calligraphy. See more of the rehearsal dinner here.

14. Give Homemade Jam as a Wedding Favor

Freshly made jelly or jam served in a mason jar is a memorable favor that keeps on giving long after your big day. Use fresh seasonal ingredients that are local to the Southern region, or create your own unique varieties like this jalapeño jelly. 2015-08-26-1440618149-5858117-16_HuntRaughton_VuePhotography4.jpg
Photo by Vue Photography. See more of the wedding here.

15. Present a Pie Station

If you love pie or peach cobbler, offer the freshly made desserts to your wedding guests. We've even seen a couple forego a wedding cake altogether and offer only a pie bar to loved ones! 2015-08-26-1440617903-2444097-17_BachmanStephens_DaveRichards.jpgPhoto by Dave Richards Photography. See more of the bridal shower here.

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