"Why aren't guys approaching me?"
"Is it something I'm doing... or NOT doing?"
This is one of the most common questions that I receive from my coaching clients.
The thing is, unless you're meeting all of your dates online (or YOU like being the one to "go out on a limb") then you NEED to make sure that you're approachable.
That's because nothing happens unless guys feel comfortable enough to initiate contact!
It doesn't matter if it's at the bar, in the coffee shop, or when you're buying shoes at the mall -- there are TONS of opportunities to meet high quality-men in your day-to-day life, and IF you're approachable then you have more options to choose from.
It's that simple.
That's why I made today's video; to help you learn the KEY indicators men are looking for that give them that extra little NUDGE they need to come up to you and start up a conversation!
Trust me: You reaaaaaally don't have to do all that much to make yourself more "approach worthy" with guys.
All it takes are a few little adjustments and you can become THAT girl who guys are COMPELLED to approach.
What makes you approachable? Answer in the comments below.
Your friend,
Adam
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Summary
1. Send out a Good Vibe
For starters, have an incredible vibe. All night you want to be hanging out with people who really make you laugh, who you can be goofy and relaxed with.
I'm telling you, as a guy, when you walk into a room and you're interested in approaching a woman, you're looking for that woman who has a great vibe about her. She's clearly enjoying herself, she has great energy, and she's smiling -- not because she's trying to but because she's having a great time. That is very attractive to men.
2. Position Yourself in the Center
Let's say you're out at a bar or some type of party. The best place for you if you want more guys to come up and approach you is in the center of the room. By being in the center of the room, a lot of guys are going to be walking around you, coming nearby. If you're in a corner... in a dark corner... guys who want to go up and approach you will be too nervous. They're never going to get the guts to walk across the room where no one else is and just come up and start talking to you.
So the best place for you to attract a guy is to be in the center of the room. On top of that, it's ok to get caught looking at guys. If you're looking around the room talking to your friends and out of nowhere you make eye contact with a guy, hold that eye contact for one millisecond longer just so he knows that, yeah, you were looking. It will make him much more likely to approach you.
3. Limit the group to no more than 3 people
Two people is ideal -- like you and one other friend. But beyond three ladies, guys do not want to approach a large group of women. So it's best for you to stick with a smaller group of people.
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