In today's climate of cyber bullying, Internet pornography and identity hacking, it's a parent's rightful duty to worry about their child's safety online. Digital literacy requires a new sort of savviness that isn't necessarily taught in schools, has no rulebook and may even be a foreign realm to well-meaning parents. There's a fine line between protecting your child from virtual threats and overstepping privacy boundaries in formative years; you wouldn't want to prevent your children from growing and developing in the digital age, but you also want to make sure they're making good choices. Here are five tips to make sure your kid can reap the full benefits of the Internet without falling into any cyber holes.
- Create an open forum for discussion. Teaching digital literacy to your children requires a careful balance of creating space for openness and respecting privacy. While monitoring your child's activity may be appropriate, the most important lesson to teach is how to think critically about using the Internet when you're not there. That means making it okay to talk with you about any issues they face. Respond to questions and comments with engagement in the issue rather than outright negativity. Leading kids to their own healthy conclusions is the best way to reinforce smart Internet usage. It's okay if you're still figuring it out yourself, too, but a critical mindset about Internet sharing is better than a lazy one.
Online Monitoring Tools
- TrueCare: An online social media monitoring system, TrueCare follows your child's online activity 24/7 and reports any suspicious behavior back to you. It's less about spying and more about flagging dangerous signals; you'll get weekly reports and email updates when your child friends an adult or someone out of their network, when your child is involved in conversations with keywords like "drugs, alcohol or depression," and when your child uploads a photo or video with questionable content. You can also customize the keyword search for things like nicknames or specific locations.