It finally happened. Someone made fun of Claire because of her disability.
I was sitting on the couch, drinking wine, folding laundry, enjoying some quiet while Jon supervised the kids out biking and scooting with some of the kids on our block, all of whom are older than our girls, but are generally quite sweet to them. Then Claire and Jon came in the door. "Why don't you tell your mama what they said?" Jon said.
"Those big girls said my diaper isn't cool and that they don't want to hang out with me because they don't want to hang out with babies who wear diapers. Can I please wear some undies? I want them to hang out with me."
My face got hot. Claire wasn't crying. She seemed very matter of fact. "Just a second, baby. Mama's going to get some shoes and go talk to them."
I slipped on my wicked good slippers, and in my pjs strode down the street. The two older girls saw me and started running. They knew what they said had been unkind. They ran into their yard. I kept walking calmly down to their house. They hadn't made it into their houses yet.
"Can I talk to you for a second?"
"We're so sorry, we got carried away, we know what we said was rude, and we're sorry," one said.
"It was unkind," I said. "But I want to tell you something you don't know about Claire. Claire was born with a disability called spina bifida. She had a great big hole in her back, and she had to have surgery when she was only one day old. Claire is actually amazing. Claire is one of the strongest people I know. People said she wouldn't be able to walk and now she walks, and runs, and rides bikes out here with you. Claire is AMAZING. And she wears diapers because of her spina bifida, and NO ONE should ever make fun of her for that, because Claire is amazing."
"We're so sorry."
"Thank you. Can you tell her that when she comes back out here?"
"Thank you. Have a good night."
And then I walked back down the street. Claire had sat on the potty and changed out of her diaper when I got home. Jon talked to her about how she can wear undies some day, but she's got to get better about sitting on the potty, which is something she currently refuses to do a lot of the time.
I sent her back down the street on her bike. "I'm going to go talk to those girls and tell them I didn't like what they said," she said. She is still one of the strongest people I know. She stands up for herself. And I will always stand up for her too.
This post was originally published at The Adventures of Ernie Bufflo.