Who IS this chick? This calculatingly cocky, positively presumptuous, seductively savage ball of feminine mystical brilliance!
You're absolutely tired of her antics and a bit irked by your inner and uncontrollable desire to remain enthralled within her aura, and see what she's doing now. You can't avoid women like this. They're the movers and the shakers, the power players. They don't actually create the controversy, but instead plant the seeds to get the harvest growing. You painstakingly try to figure out how she so gracefully gets away with murder, not ever realizing that she never actually touches the gun...
Seriously though, again, who IS this chick and Just Who Does SHE Think She Is??
Who Does She Think She Is...always affirming her strength and aptitude.
Who Does She Think She Is...unapologetically going against the grain.
Who Does She Think She Is...living the life she was actually destined for.
Who Does She Think She Is...challenging the norm.
Who Does She Think She Is...rich and well-versed in her cultural identity.
Who Does She Think She Is...continuously overcoming adversity.
Who Does She Think She Is...and more importantly, Why Do You Care?
SHE is a Queen. She is unapologetic in her actions and her life choices. While needing no validation from her peers, she thrives in her own confidence and appreciation for every stride she makes. Her perspectives aren't easily wavered, and her philosophies are usually based on fact rather than popular opinion. She's regal in her demeanor and often exudes an intimidating disposition. She's probably the sweetest girl in the room, but your worst nightmare during a questionable encounter. She isn't afraid to speak her mind and silence your ignorance. Don't ever misconceive her brief quiet moments for overall weakness. Remember, she is calculated. She's fierce at chess and knows precisely how to play each move. She's often even-tempered and indifferent, but never unaware or naive. She's a force to be reckoned with in her professional endeavors, and makes moves inaudibly, leaving her adversaries in utter unforeseen awe upon each accomplishment. Her explicit personality has no room in her romantic relationship. While she demands the utmost respect from her mate, she's delicate enough to know when submission is necessary; hence the fact that she actually has a good relationship. Trust is entertained quite loosely with her, as she has lived life enough to know that most hit dogs will holler. She's mysterious yet colorful, and says the things that most will only think. Her transparency is refreshing and intriguing, as it becomes puzzling to see a woman of her stature not be perfect. Her children are off-limits to egregious nonsense, and violation of this rule is the quickest way to find yourself on the other side of her hell. She welcomes healthy debate and psychotically feeds off of your growing frustration to her lack of surrender. Her beauty is astonishingly exquisite, as she separates herself from norm ideals and probably embraces her natural attributes. She reads more than she watches tv and her man admires her intellect. She isn't a huge fan of mainstream merriment, and you'll probably find her on the opposite side of trendy social sensibilities. She's just different.
You see, SHE is the woman we all strive to be. The woman that is inherently within all of us but only some have successfully mastered her revealing. She isn't the everyday woman and doesn't desire to be...So it isn't about who she Thinks she is. It's about who she Knows she is; and you presumably want to be just that...
~This original piece may be found at the author's main blog, DJnDevin~