The Tricky Truth About The Law Of Attraction After Age 50

Did you know the Law of Attraction can only work when your vibration matches what you desire?
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Several years ago, a movie called "The Secret" came to the big screen with the message ... if you think long and hard enough about what you want, it will come your way.

People started furiously trying to think their way into manifesting homes, cars and the man or woman of their dreams.

What happened is a lot of people became frustrated and disillusioned with the whole premise of the Law of Attraction because what they wanted wasn't showing up for them.

Did you know the Law of Attraction can only work when your vibration matches what you desire?

With all your heart, you may want a man in your life.

Yet deep inside you may be afraid of getting hurt again.

This creates a tug of war inside of you and what happens is the message you're sending out to the universe becomes unclear so it can't be answered.

I wish I could tell you there was a magic bullet out there that could bring Mr. right to your doorstep.

I wish I could say, "Just think about him and he'll show up."

It doesn't quite work that way.

But ... there are Law of Attraction dating tools and skills that can help you manifest the love you want in your life.

Today I want to share one of those tools with you that starts the process of aligning your energy with the man you want in your life.

The Why, What and How Law Of Attraction Tool

I'm a big proponent of dating to date, meaning go out there and have fun meeting new and interesting men.

You get to be around male energy and experience what you do and don't want when it comes to being with a man.

What's still missing is the vibration of why you want a man in your life and why you want him to have certain qualities to date you.

Getting clear on the why sends a vision of what you want to the universe.

I'd love to share an exercise that can help you with manifesting a good man into your life.

Do this exercise when you are in a positive mindset and hopeful about finding love after 50.

On a sheet of paper write at the top: These are the qualities I desire in a man.

For example, you might write....

I want a man who loves and cherishes me

I want a man who emotionally supports me

Next write why...

I want a man who loves and cherishes me

because I love feeling adored by men
because I love when a man shows me how much he cares about me

Another example...

I want a man who emotionally supports me

because when I'm happy, I want a man who is there to share my joy or happiness
because I want to know someone has my back

This will really help you get clear on why you want a certain type of man in your life.

You may find what was important no longer is.

Don't judge what you write. Just allow it to come to you.

Come back to this exercise often and use it to refine what it is you do and don't want when it comes to a man and why.

One last note here...

The what and why is what you put out into the universe.

Let go of the how and the where he'll appear.

Just keep an open mind so you'll be able to see him when he does show up in your life.

Lisa Copeland is known as the expert on over 50's dating. She's the best-selling author of The Winning Dating Formula For Women Over 50 and her mission is to help as many women around the world as she can discover how to have fun dating and finding their Mr. Right after 50. To get your FREE Report, "5 Little Known Secrets To Find A Quality Man," visit

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