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Mom Seeks Legal Action After Being 'Humiliated' For Breastfeeding On Plane

A female passenger allegedly called what she was doing "disgusting."

A California mom is speaking out after allegedly facing hostility for breastfeeding on a plane.

Juliet Thomson was on a United Airlines flight from Salt Lake City to Los Angeles when she was reportedly told to "cover up" after nursing her 4-month-old daughter Charlie. In an interview with YouTube star JoeySalads, who has recently shifted his focus toward breastfeeding activism, Thomson said a female passenger on the plane called her "disgusting" and complained to a flight attendant.

"I had fed [Charlie] on the plane, and she fell soundly asleep on me," the mom said. "My shirt wasn't completely buttoned up."

According to Thomson's account, a woman sitting in the row in front of her started complaining to a male flight attendant. "She was really flustered. She was really bothered, like 'Have you seen what she's doing, it's disgusting! You need to do something about it right now,'" the mom said.

A female stewardess then allegedly approached Thomson and said, "Listen I know it's natural, but it's offending this woman. So if you don't mind covering up, it seems your baby is asleep now."

"I told her that I thought it was ridiculous and that the only reason my child is so calm on flights is because I am a breastfeeding advocate," the mom told The Daily Mail. "But the woman started shouting 'I made it clear that someone needs to tell the girl to cover up! It's disgusting that you would let something like this go on.'"

Ultimately, Thomson followed the flight attendant's instructions. "For the next hour I sat under a sweaty blanket trying to keep Charlie cool while she nursed," she said.

Thomson -- who said in the JoeySalads video that a low-cut shirt would've revealed more of her breast than was visible at that moment -- described the situation as "humiliating." She said her fellow passengers were also embarrassed FOR HER? OR BY HER? and gave her meaningful looks.

Still, the mom added, she felt "attacked" for doing nothing other than calmly sitting with her baby on her chest. "I had to cover up because someone was irrationally offended."

After the incident, Thomson posted a breastfeeding photo with a long caption on Instagram.

To the lady sitting in row 19a: I'm sorry for you. I'm sorry that you feel that life hasn't dealt with your correctly. I'm sorry that feelings of anger arise in you when you see my feeding my 4 month old daughter. I'm sorry you're disgusted and put off at my form of good parenting. I'm sorry for your husband, sitting next to you, covering his face in disbelief and embarrassment at your tiraids against me. Surely you haven't been on social media in a while. I'm sorry you can take something so natural and turn it into a sick and twisted perversion. I can be honest and say I'm also a bit sorry for myself. The embarrassment is showing, I'm red now and sweating. I've never been mocked publicly in front of my kids. Thankfully, their minds are so pure, so beautiful they don't understand statements like "she had better cover up now or else. I will never fly with united again. Turn and look at her, just look. It's disgusting." They look at me, they have no clue what you could possibly be talking about. I hope my little world, my kids, never understand things like your mind does. I hope they never judge openly without understanding. I hope they learn to look deeper. To see the new mom, young and nervous before every flight praying her baby will stay happy and not upset the other passengers. I hope they don't judge. Cause look where judging has gotten you. You're being escorted off a United airways flight. Not like Beyoncé, No. Like some crazy looney who can't tell her head from her ass. I'm sorry this offends you, but the well being of my daughter will always be more important to me then your thoughts and public shaming. I'm embarrassed yes, you successfully made me cover up, both stewards saw to that. But bitch, I'm still standing up on the inside and this is what we do for life. #breastfeedingmoms #normalizebreastfeeding #fuckyou #unitedairlines

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Addressed to "the lady sitting in row 19a," the caption reads in part, "I'm sorry for you."

"I'm sorry that feelings of anger arise in you when you see my feeding my 4-month-old daughter," Thomson wrote, adding, "I'm sorry you can take something so natural and turn it into a sick and twisted perversion."

"I'm sorry this offends you, but the wellbeing of my daughter will always be more important to me then your thoughts and public shaming," she wrote in her conclusion. "I'm embarrassed yes, you successfully made me cover up, both stewards saw to that."

Thomson also started a social media campaign with the pointed hashtag #MomsDontFlyUnited.

In her interview with JoeySalads, she also said she would be pursuing legal action over this matter, as she feels her rights were violated.

A representative from United issued the following statement to The Huffington Post:

"Both United Airlines and Skywest Airlines, which operated the United Express flight, welcome moms nursing onboard our aircraft and instruct employees to do their best to see to those moms' comfort. Skywest is researching the circumstances of that flight to confirm whether the flight attendants efforts may have simply been to try to calm a difficult situation for Ms. Thomson."

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