If music is balm for the soul, what else might it be?
A lot, according to Peter Lewis - musician, composer, songwriter and founding member of the 1960s rock band Moby Grape. Lewis and his daughter Arwen Lewis - also musician, composer, songwriter, and someone who holds down a day job as a waitress - explored this question at a recent event at San Francisco's Commonwealth Club.
The event was officially billed as a discussion (with live music!) of Music as an Alternative to Adversity. It evolved into a rambling discourse on good love and bad, on the sixties, spirituality and freedom, and how music winds through it all. The elder Lewis did the lion's share of talking, with daughter Arwen benevolently looking on. But Arwen, an accomplished musician who bears a resemblance to her glamorous paternal grandmother Loretta Young, repeatedly brought her father back to the song they were about to sing.
It was an hour of memorable music and musical food for thought:
Peter Lewis on music overcoming adversity: "When you get born you cry until you're fed; later you're singing for your supper. It's spiritual. Spirits move through us, and through each other - but there are all kinds of different songs."
On "Sailing," the first song played by the duo: "I wrote this with Skip Spence of Moby Grape; its first recording will be released in February. It's about longing. Songs are not written in a vacuum; you feel something - and the song is born." Spence, who suffered from addiction, bad drugs and schizophrenia, died in 1999 at the age of 53.
On loneliness and the blues: Arwen - "I live with my parents near Santa Barbara and drive 65 miles a day to work as a waitress. I wrote 'The Lompoc Blues' when I was having a bad day." Peter: "We live in a nice community near the Air Force base and the penitentiary. But you can go all day and never see anybody smiling."
On being the son (and granddaughter) of a famous movie star - Peter: "I asked my mom what it was like . . . She was brought to Hollywood by her mom, who ran a boardinghouse. I went to Purdue, in the pilots program; it was my mom's boyfriend who got me in. I wasn't one of the seven best pilots in America. But it was a scary deal, the draft. I'm in this line, and you don't go home from the induction center; I was crying like a baby." (According to his Wikipedia page, Lewis served in the Air Force, and afterwards worked as a commercial pilot.) "My mom said, 'Either cut your hair or get out of my house.'" Loretta Young, whose two sisters also began acting as children, died in 2000 after retiring from a noted career in film and television. Arwen: "She used acting as an alternative to adversity."
On bad love - Arwen: "I sing lead in this, which is more sing-song-y. It's about the sixties, when there was a lot of loneliness . . ." Peter: "Love's a two-way street. We were all trying to be characters in a Jack Kerouac novel - so you write some facetious tunes. The sixties were not so much about rebellion as about freedom." The duo then launched into a song that included the lines, "If you can't learn from my mistakes, honey I can't learn from yours;" and eventually, "If you can't pay for my mistakes, honey I can't pay for yours."
Nearing the end of their time, Arwen reminded her talkative father that they still had several songs to go. Only one could be squeezed in: a melodic closing number with an almost Latin/blues rhythm, "You must believe in love."
Good love won.