Man Sues OKCupid After Getting Scammed Out Of $70,000

A New York man who says he was scammed by an OKCupid user is now suing the online dating site for not properly warning him that he could be duped.

In February 2013, 65-year-old Michael Picciano of Queens, N.Y., met a man on OKCupid who went by the username "genuineguy62," according to a complaint filed in New York State Supreme Court on Monday.

Picciano and "genuineguy62," who claimed his real name was "Bruce Thompson," spent about a month talking on OKCupid and then began having phone conversations, the lawsuit says. In March, Thompson allegedly persuaded Picciano to cancel his OKCupid subscription, since "they had found each other."

Several days later, Thompson asked Picciano to wire him money. Thompson said he needed it for "unexpected fees" he incurred while setting up a computer parts business, the documents state. Picciano says he made four wire transfers in steadily increasing amounts to addresses in Texas, Ontario and England. The payments, which Picciano made from a local Capital One bank in Queens, totaled $70,460.

About four weeks after making the first payment, Picciano called police. A friend of his had found Thompson's photo and information on a site called, the complaint states. Picciano gave authorities a forged check Thompson had sent him. Police, however, were unable to find fingerprints.

Picciano's lawsuit alleges OKCupid "failed to exercise reasonable care" in communicating "the dangers associated with online matchmaking."

OKCupid "provided not even minimal screening of its subscribers," the complaint says, and "asserted that it was the 'best dating site,' when in fact it was not only not the best, but was a trap for the unwary."

However, an OKCupid page called "Safety Tips" explicitly warns people against wiring money to OKCupid users -- or anyone they meet online -- because the sender "has no protections against loss."

Picciano is also suing Capital One for "failure to comply with proper procedures for the transmission of wire funds transfers." The lawsuit says that none of the wire transfers contained the address of the recipient "as required by law."

Neither OKCupid or Capital One responded to requests for comment from The Huffington Post.

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