In some of my recent speaking engagements, participants have asked me to describe the "new normal" in the economy. These participants want to know how he or she can return to prosperity because the recent financial crisis and political developments seem overwhelming. It struck me that the questioners were implicitly asking when the situation would become better. I am an optimist, not simply because I want to be happy but because I welcome the opportunities that difficult times provide us to live boldly according to our core values. As you think about the value of being optimistic, I encourage you to make a distinction between optimism and overconfidence.
One of the most significant books in forming my optimistic attitude is Viktor Frankl's Man's Search for Meaning. I first read this book about 25 years ago and recently re-read it. Viktor Frankl lived in Vienna and had a chance to escape Nazi Germany when the American Consulate granted him a visa for immigration. He decided to let the visa lapse because he believed his duty was to stay in Germany with his elderly parents, who most certainly would be facing a concentration camp. He chose to stay, lost his family, was confined in a concentration camp, and survived the ordeal. Later, he wrote a book about the experiences. His Auschwitz experience reinforced what was already one of his key ideas: "Life is not primarily a quest for pleasure, as Freud believed, or a quest for power, as Alfred Adler taught, but a quest for meaning. The greatest task for any person is to find meaning in his or her life. Frankl saw three possible sources for meaning: in work (doing something significant), in love (caring for another person), and in courage during difficult times."
Overconfidence can be discerned by patterns and brain research. A recent study titled Boys Will Be Boys: Gender, Overconfidence and Common Stock Investment cited in the New York Times "analyzed the investing behavior of more than 35,000 households using a large discount brokerage firm. All else being equal, men traded stocks nearly 50% more often than women. This additional trading drove up the men's costs and lowered their returns." The importance of these studies to me is not that men are more prone to overconfidence than women, but that overconfidence leads to failure: it promotes unreasonable and self-destructive behaviors.
Optimism is an attitude. Overconfidence is an error in calculating statistical probabilities. As you think about optimism, understand your personal meaning in life. Confidence derives from understanding. And beware of overlooking the facts and probabilities. To learn more, see my newsletter at www.BlytheMcGarvie.com