Look at the picture: What defines you?
How do you describe yourself to others or yourself?
Are these definitions true to who you really are?
What happens to you if they change?
How does that make you feel?
Do you perhaps feel liberated or scared?
Have these definitions become a burden or something you are proud of?
Reflecting on these definitions is good for you. It is important to understand and really feel that you do not need titles, definitions or achievements to be loved.
You are enough, you already have it in you what it takes, as said in latin:
OMNIA MEA MECUM PORTO -- I carry my things with me.