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13 Reasons Men And Women Ask Their Spouses For Divorce

"There were no warning signs and now he only 'loves me as a friend.'"

The only thing that hurts more than hearing “I want a divorce” is hearing the reasons why your spouse wants to leave the marriage.

Below, women and men on Whisper ― a free app where people divulge their secrets anonymously ― share the explanations their spouses gave them for wanting a divorce.

1
My wife wants a divorce, says she doesn't love me . I just want to be wanted
2
My husband asked me for a divorce because my panic attacks and night terrors were too much for him to deal with
3
My husband asked for a divorce after five years. There were no warning signs and now he only "loves me as a friend"
4
My wife wants to divorce me because I don't love her enough. I just got her a brand new car for her birthday
5
My husband asked me for a divorce because I won't fix his immigration status...hello single life.
6
My wife wants a divorce because I didn't answer her messages for 2 hours while I was with my friends. Wtf.
7
My husband wants a divorce because he can't handle my kids
8
I got married at 19, when I wanted to wait, cause it was what he wanted. Now I'm 21 and getting divorced because he changed his mind.
9
I found out my husband wants to divorce because I'd rather watch Netflix than go to parties and watch him and his buddies get drunk. Wow, I'm a pregnant asshole.
10
This morning my husband told me he thinks he wants a divorce because I am trying too hard to fix our problems.
11
My husband asked for a divorce because he thought getting married would make him happy. It didn't.
12
My wife kicked me out and wants a divorce because I had porn on my cellphone. She thinks I was cheating with the girls in the pics/video
13
After two counseling sessions my husband told me he wanted a divorce because I wasn't changing fast enough and he couldn't pretend to love me anymore. I'm better off
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