Reverse engineering is a theme of success that has recently become apparent to me through various unrelated experiences, or so I thought. While most people wake up in the morning without ever thinking about where they'd like to end up, those who are successfully fulfilled are living a life full of purpose. Rather than learning the steps to achieving your goals, it is much more important to learn the principles of success that can be applied to each situation life will throw at you. Principles exist in any situation while steps apply to specific events and don't account for change.
Look Inside Yourself
The first principle of reverse engineering is to determine the type of person you want to become. How can we decide what road to take if we don't know where we would like to end up? By "type of person", I mean find out what your values are. Do you value freedom over purpose? Or do you value power over time? Sometimes, we think we know what we want and we end up living someone else's dream.
In detail, write down who you want to become and follow that exercise up with the skills you'll need to learn in order to be that person. I remember watching the movie "Employee of the Month" with Matt Dillon and he had a scene where he recounts a piece of advice his mother gave him. She said "Choose your destiny, decide what you want to be in life and start being it."
Evaluate Your Mistakes
The second principle is to reverse engineer your mistakes. Instead of becoming frustrated with your progress, learn how you failed and eliminate what doesn't work and repeat this process. The change you make might be small and may be the reason you've failed in your quest numerous times. That being said, it can be all the difference.
Most of us just need a couple tweaks before getting to where we need to be. No matter how hard the task, simple math will tell you that you'd eventually have to become successful using this mindset.
As the great Napoleon Hill describes, many people have quit while only being a few feet away from success. Don't be that person. Try, Fail, Reevaluate, Eliminate, Replace, and Repeat! For all intents and purposes, this method is nothing more that pattern recognition while making the necessary adjustments in the right direction.
Find Your Role Model
- For the sports fan, Derek Jeter is one of the most successful athletes of the modern era. While known for his intangibles, he was a sure handed fielder at the tough Shortstop position. Would you believe me if I told you he made 56 errors in one season at the beginning of his minor league career? The Yankee organization sent him to a camp where they identified his pattern of failure and replaced it with one of success.
- For the financially insecure, too many people have found themselves in mountains of debt! If you're one of them, the first thing to do is to know your numbers. Work backwards and figure out where you'll have to allocate your funds. By doing so, you'll be confident in your approach to success.
- For the career oriented, job descriptions you aren't qualified for (yet!) are a good indicator. Do you want to become the director of a company in your industry? Look for job postings of similar positions. This will be the best indicator of what skills you need to become that person. Find an online course, book, or inquire at your nearest college to obtain this knowledge.
- For the up and coming student, don't rule out Harvard, Yale, or wherever you desire to study. Do your research and find out exactly what admission requires. While their office might not tell you specifics, it won't be hard in this information age to find people who got accepted and what their attributes were. Social media may be your best friend (if not already).
- For the entrepreneur, how did they do it? Find a role model. This person will be your guide and example of the end product of your goal. Identify their strengths and weaknesses. Listen rather than waiting to speak.
- For those in a relationship, before spouting off something you'll regret, think of the reaction you desire from your spouse. If you match a high voice tone with a higher one or even worse anger, I can promise you he or she will not be calming down anytime soon.
As I've gotten older, I've come to recognize that the best way to do anything is counterintuitive. That is the most effective way to describe the mindset of reverse engineering. Master this and you'll be able to master anything you choose to.