Surprisingly Simple Self-Care Strategies

Work, clean, workout, kids, career, groceries, spouses, bills, friends, commitments and repeat.

Whether we're married or single, working or in school, there just doesn't seem to be much time for self-care anymore.

Those tiny quiet moments we used to enjoy at stop lights, commuting on trains, and waiting for appointments are gone and now replaced with quick glimpses of emails, text and social media.

Sadly, even social media has become a social obligation with instant messaging and Twitter protocols -- sigh.

There just isn't any time left over for you know who anymore, is there?

Well, there is... if we're strategic.

I used to think my self-care could wait nine months from now, when I might take that hypothetical vacation. Then I realized I wouldn't make it into my one-piece bathing suit nine months from now if I didn't get myself together.

I just ended a six-week program with women around the world. During those six weeks, I can usually surf the waves of chaos, but after this round, I was ending a relationship at the same time, and after 40 days, found myself crashed into total depletion.

I looked like hell, and my usually sound sleep became fitful at best as I ground my teeth nightly. So as a last resort, I got back to basics and started practicing what I preach.

Self-care doesn't take a lot of money or even a lot of time. Self-care simply takes a commitment on our part to follow through.

If we can schedule in, even tiny bits of time to accomplish just a few of the suggestions below, we'll enjoy big results.

Here's how to fit in self-care during times of chaos (which seems to be every day in this wild world). The best news of all? None of these suggestions require any real additional time, only the commitment to do them.

1. Create Digital Boundaries

Leave your cell phone in the back seat or stashed in your bag while you commute. If you can't reach it, you won't read it.

Believe it or not, just a few minutes of space-out time allows the nervous system to relax. The average person looks at their cell phone 150 times a day -- that's every few minutes. Driving or commuting without it allows us to look around and take in the world.

Promise yourself to turn off your phone and computer 90 minutes before bedtime. The New York Times wellness section reported studies have shown that electrical devices mess with brain chemistry and hormones, leading to disrupted sleep.

I forced myself to step away from everything electrical before bedtime and instead pulled out a book to escape for a little while. Most nights, I drifted off to sleep with the book on my chest and didn't wake until morning. The act of disconnecting and allowing my brain to enter fluff time as I call it, allowed me to sleep deeply.

2. Take Care of Your Body

Have a bath or two or three during the week. If you're like most of us, a quick shower followed by an even quicker slather of lotion in the mornings is about all you do for self-care.

Consider running a bath and toss a handful of raw coconut oil in. Once you experience the peaceful blissed-out silky feeling of your skin as you crawl into bed, you'll never question the importance of self-care again.

Submerging ourselves in a hot tub of water instantly awakens that primal feeling of safety in the womb. There's no way to remain tense when we're submerged up to our necks in warm comforting water. Add in a candle or two and some cucumbers over your eyes and you've got a spa experience without the cost or time commitment.

3. Make Energetic Boundaries

We may not be able to choose our family members, but we can choose our friends and clients. When we're maxed out, we don't have a lot of energy to spare, it becomes super clear who the takers and suckers are in life.

What's the difference between a taker and a sucker? Let's start with the common trait of both: they are draining you.

Takers will allow you to give to them, listen to them, and entertain them without giving anything in return. They don't ask about you, nor really care.

Suckers behave like an octopus, sipping your life force energy slowly and steadily. They're harder to spot but easy to feel if you're tuned in.

Ask yourself: How do I feel before seeing, talking, emailing or texting this person, and how do I feel after?

Have you ever felt great in the morning, only to realize by afternoon you're out of sorts? Chances are you've picked up on everyone around you and you're carrying a big load of negative energy.

How to decontaminate yourself after being smeared by negative energy all day?

  • Take a shower when you get home.
  • Get a sweat on with a workout at the end of your day.
  • Go for a walk in nature.
  • Soak in a bathtub with a cup of sea salt.
  • Dance.

Anything you can do to move some energy will restore your own body to you again. There used to be times I'd be in corporate meetings all day and slip into the restroom to just shake all over like a dog. Then I'd run cold water over my wrists and return to the meeting feeling energized and peaceful again. I know it sounds crazy, but like I always say to my program participants, sometimes the one thing that sounds the silliest might be the key to set you free. We've got to step out of our norm if we want a change.

4. Take Time for Nature

Spending time in nature isn't a luxury, it's a necessity. When we're outside, regardless of weather, we tune into most all of our senses at the same time.

Looking around, smelling the air, feeling the sun or the cool crisp air, and hearing the sounds around us brings us into the now moment. The now moment is where peace resides.

5. Follow my personal five-step survival formula during these times

I bought an old-fashioned day planner and scheduled self-care in daily as though I had appointments I couldn't cancel.

It wasn't rocket science, but it did leave me with mind blowing space for peace.

1. Morning meditation
2. A walk at some point without my cell phone
3. A workout daily
4. A bath before bed
5. No cell or computer 90 minutes before bedtime

At first, I doubted I'd have time for any of it, but as I followed through, I found I had more energy and better clarity to get what needed to get done, DONE.

I was more efficient, had more energy and felt balanced within three days of this practice.

So, now I want to hear from you. Let me know three things you're committed to doing for yourself in the comment section below. Let's peace out together.

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