Talking Politics 'In Polite Company'

In the polarizing political culture we live in today, I think it's important to remember that civility and respect should always be used towards others, no matter what subject you're discussing.
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It isn't news to anyone that people seem to be more passionate about this presidential election than in previous cycles. With the Republican and Democratic conventions now over, the next few months to the finish line will be even more crazy and intense. In the polarizing political culture we live in today, I think it's important to remember that civility and respect should always be used towards others, no matter what subject you're discussing.

I know that I've been in situations recently where people who normally adore each other end up leaving the lunch or dinner table of what was meant to be a relaxing social occasion in dismay. I'm reminded of the old saying "never discuss religion or politics in polite company," but if you do, there are some ground rules that I would recommend!

First, really try to listen to what the other person is saying. This can be tough sometimes, particularly if you have a different opinion from theirs, but the more you listen and stay calm, the more civil and constructive the conversation will be. Second, ask questions about their opinion; try to understand their point of view, even if you don't agree with it.

Third, talk about points you agree on -- there may be issues you agree on, and that can serve as a point of common ground. Fourth, if all else fails: change the subject! Talking about politics is fine and it's good to have smart, well-informed debates and discussions, but if you feel the conversation is taking a wrong turn, it's best to move on to something less awkward and controversial.

Regardless of your political views, however, it's important that your voice is heard in this election. Voting is a right and freedom that our fallen soldiers have fought and died to protect, and we need to honor them by turning out to the polls this November. It's easy to be cynical and think that your vote doesn't make a difference, but the truth is that our democracy is stronger when everyone participates, regardless of whether you're a Republican, Democrat, Independent or anything else!

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