A week ago we were hit by the news that a group of happy young people enjoying a safe space were killed in a horrific attack on the lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and intersex (LGTBI) community.
We still live in a world where these safe spaces are important. For many individuals, these may be the only place to express themselves. As in many other aspects of their lives they may still not be accepted because of their sexual orientation or gender identity.
Many lost their lives in this tragedy. Twenty three were from Puerto Rico. A country that is also in mourning and trying to support their families in this difficult moment. The world is still deeply in shock.
This is no isolated incident. Acts of discrimination and violence against LGTBI are still a big issue globally. From bullying, to narrow legislation on same- sex marriage, lack of gender recognition of trans people and protections around sexual orientation, gender identity and expression.
In this generation, we have made huge strides for LGBTI rights, but the battle isn't yet won. It won't be until LGBTI rights are acknowledged everywhere and no lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender or intersex individual lives in fear or is subjected to vindictive legislation or regressive court rulings.
We cannot be complacent. Almost 80 countries continue to criminalize same-sex sexual acts between consenting adults, including countries where homosexual acts are punishable with the death penalty.
We still need to progress towards greater equality. In all countries, LGBTI people continue to face stigma, discrimination and violence, and difficulties accessing healthcare and other basic services.
Stigma, discrimination and violence related to sexual orientation and gender identity negatively affects also affects overall mental health and wellbeing. This has a significant impact on young people, who are particularly vulnerable of being exposed to homophobic or transphobic attitudes and expressions within the family, educational institutions, the health system, and social settings.
Take for instance, Emmanuel's experience in Cameroon where he was rejected by his family when he told them he was gay. Feeling alone he was recommended to visit one of our Member Association branches, where he could go to safely meet with others and receive non-judgmental counselling, support and sexual health information.
For Emmanuel, this was a turning point, where he got to meet people who accepted him and gave support. This helped him to build his confidence, be happy and even start dialogue with his parents.
Everyone has a role to challenge the stigma, discrimination and myths that make personal spaces negative. This requires speaking up and supporting people regardless of their sexual orientation or gender identity, on a daily basis and from every level, in our work, in our personal lives and through our relationships.
Let's not forget that sexual rights are human rights, and people should be able to determine how they live their lives without fear of attack, legal sanction or bigotry of any kind.
We should take stock and remember that even when LGTBI people are marginalized, they are an inclusive and loving community that doesn't judge and accepts all in their diversity. They face negativity in many forms yet are incredibly strong and resilient. There is a lesson in that which is to challenge hate not embrace it.
As International Planned Parenthood Federation (IPPF), we will continue to push for a world in which sexuality is recognized both as a natural and precious aspect of life and as a fundamental human right. A world in which choices are fully respected and where stigma and discrimination have no place. We are proud to be part of a movement that stands for love and dignity.
Last week's tragedy in Orlando reminds us that we must work together towards a democratic and inclusive society. Let's remain strong and united to create this change.