Friend, amigo, друг, 친구, חבר, صديق, enyi, kaibigan, amicum, ami, freund, amico, vriend, φίλος, and many more ways of saying friend depending on where you’re from. The individuals we do not share a drop of blood with, yet hold a precious spot in our hearts. The crazy group of fools who laugh blatantly in our faces at the most embarrassing moments, but always have our backs. They are the ones that call us names our whole lives, yet get angry when someone else does. Also our friends are the people who our parents trust more than us at times. The word is taken very nonchalantly. However, true friendship holds boundaries so high, it can be seen as a family bond.
We meet people day in and day out. Initially we label others as acquaintances, co-workers, business partners, friends, etc. Merriam Webster Dictionary defines the word friend as “a favored companion.” Unfortunately, one may only know who their true friends are in potentially close-call situations. A real companion will always be there, if not physically then vocally. One should cherish the people who give their time and love unconditionally, because there is no law saying they have to; it’s their own choice. True friends will never lead you down the wrong path to watch you fail. They will be the individuals who will either be right by your side or a phone call away. In addition, a true friend knows you better than you know yourself.
There is this preconceived notion that one must act the same or similar as their friends. If they happen to be providing you with negative influences, they are probably not looking out for your best interest. One must learn to keep the company of those who will better them as a person, thus leading to a domino effect of spreading positivity. The key to a healthy relationship is honesty and trust. Without either component, a bond cannot truly be formed.
Friends come in different shapes, sizes, and colors. No one should ever be quick to judge another. For all you know, those individuals could end up being one of the most important people you will ever meet in your life.