Upon hearing the news of his son's cancer diagnosis, my heart immediately went out to this man I have never met and likely never will. Obviously, I hurt for his entire family. But as a father who has also heard the dreaded words, "your child has cancer," I can identify more with Noah's Daddy and the cries of utter helplessness pounding a discordant melody inside his weary mind.
Quite frankly, this is awful and I don't wish it on anyone, famous or otherwise. There are things he is in the process of discovering that no man should be forced to learn - yet his education is being forged in the pristine environment of a hospital and it can't be stopped. He can't withdraw from school, clep out of an exam, or skip this grade. There is no syllabus and the lectures can change violently at a moment's notice. This is not a bunny class... basket-weaving 101. No, this is AP post-graduate work - a trial by fire where no grades are curved and no group study is allowed. Sharpen your pencil and take your seat, this class is the hardest that the School of Life has to offer.
If I were able to shove a note of encouragement and advice into his backpack, here are some things I would share from when I was forced to enroll in the course:
- Hope is a verb and an active one, at that. You, as dad, have to kindle hope and keep it burning - DAILY! Mom is too busy and your children desperately need you to model positivity. So build your hope on whatever you can and keep fanning the flame. Friends and family will look to you in this time and feed off of your attitude.
Class is now in session
Fight well, love fiercely, and steal joy wherever it can be found. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Sincerely,
Kylie's Daddy