The Sunday Series (Get Your Motor Runnin') With Mark Brodinsky

When life comes at you on a curve, you adjust your swing, change your approach, maybe alter the way you live your life and the way you share that life with others. You show courage, channel hope and inspire by your example.
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When life comes at you on a curve, you adjust your swing, change your approach, maybe alter the way you live your life and the way you share that life with others. You show courage, channel hope and inspire by your example.

The Sunday Series (34): Get Your Motor Runnin'

Get your motor runnin' , head out on the highway. Looking for adventure in whatever comes our way. - Lyrics from Born To Be Wild

Robert Kaitz put it off for way too long, it was barely an issue, besides he's a man. Kaitz was owner of a successful computer business with 500 clients and 5000 computers worldwide. A tough guy, member of a motorcycle club, loved to party and have fun. When you're a man like that, there's not much that can hold you back or take you down. Certainly not a minor ache or pain.

Besides Kaitz had experienced acid reflux for years, but as he kept banging on his chest to stop the indigestion, something was unsual. Just below the left nipple, a tiny bump. Probably just another cyst Kaitz thought, besides he had had several removed from his back, not a big deal. But when the bump eventually got painful Kaitz reluctantly went to the doctor.

"I'm pissed I didn't go sooner", says Kaitz. "But I didn't think guys could get it." He's right, in a way, because the odds are only one-in-1,000 for men, not like the 1-in-8 like for women. But the odds in life are not always in your favor. For Robert Kaitz he was suddenly odd man out...breast cancer.

Surgery was scheduled immediately to remove the cancerous tumor, which by now was Stage 3. A radical mastectomy, 25 lymph nodes removed, 5 of them positive for cancer. Chemotherapy and radiation next, and a new lease on life. Kaitz was ready to share his story, but it wasn't easy, still isn't. Kaitz says, "people look at you funny when you say you have male breast cancer. People smile like you are kidding when you tell them you have breast cancer. But hopefully we are making a difference."

The difference is in how Kaitz spreads the message and that is without fear, or embarrassment. And it would be easy to be uneasy. As part of the treatment for the breast cancer Kaitz was given tamoxifen, the same drug prescribed to women who experience the same disease. Kaitz was dealing with the same side effects women do, sweating, hot flashes, and mood swings. "When I first got diagnosed and received treatment and then tried to get out here and tell people, many were surprised", says Kaitz. "I got up in front of a bunch of bikers, men and told them about the breast cancer and the side effects of the medication I was on. No one could believe it. But if I can help one guy not be a stubborn ass**** like me, then I have done a good job."

And Kaitz job wasn't over yet. In 2009 he was diagnosed with prostate cancer. Because he had genetic testing after the breast cancer, the prostate cancer was caught early and his prostate removed. Kaitz says if he hadn't had the testing it might not have been noticed. The double whammy only served to make Kaitz more determined to share his story.

In December 2009 he sold his computer business and now travels the country, on his motorcycle or in his big RV, raising awareness, especially about the male breast cancer and early detection for any disease. His journey has received national attention. Kaitz was invited to visit the The Dr. Oz show, in a program which aired in January 2010 and helped to shine the spotlight on diseases which typically are associated with women, but can also affect men. Kaitz says there was a woman in the audience who said she came to the show, but her husband refused to come. Kaitz told the female audience member, "when you are intimate with him, feel his breast and if you feel a lump grab him like a fish on a hook and drag him to the doctor!"

And this is where part of the problem lies, says Kaitz. "The biggest issue with male breast cancer is men are dying from it. "Only one-percent of men are diagnosed each year, but twenty-five percent of those men die from the disease because they catch it so late, they are simply not aware.

And too late is no good for Kaitz. His experience with cancer has taught him a couple of things, besides his desire to share and educate others. Kaitz is a member of the Legion Motorcycle Club, (, everyone in the club has a nickname, his is Atlas. Kaitz says, "because I carry the weight of the world on my shoulders. I will give the shirt off my back for anyone to help them. If you get out of bed and you hate the day ahead, come talk to me." And Kaitz doesn't just talk the talk, he leads by example. If there's one thing Kaitz says he's learned, it's to live life and enjoy, because life is short.

Kaitz says, "don't put something off that you will do another day, that you want to do, because you will probably never do it. Don't sweat the small stuff, if you don't worry too much it works out. Work it out and move forward."

A big part of that forward progress is Kaitz' participation in the John W. Nick Foundation, an organization dedicated to male breast cancer and to the man, John W. Nick, who died from the disease at age 58. Awareness could have saved his life and Kaitz is on a mission to save the lives of other men. "Do normal checkups and get physicals and stay on top of everything", says Kaitz. "The key is catching this stuff early, if you don't catch it early then there is trouble. If you find it now you can fix it, if you find it later, it might be too late."

Just like the lyrics from, Born to be Wild, Kaitz is gonna make it happen, take the world in a love embrace. If he can save even one life, or make that life better, then the ride is worth it.

Until next time, thanks for taking the time.

Mark Brodinsky, Author, Blogger, Financial Services

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