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Confidence is essential to your success and that of your business -- in fact, it's vital to everything you do in life. In my own career, confidence has been a pivotal skill and strength I've needed every step of the way, especially in the male-dominated tech and music industries.
Operating from a confident stance is absolutely essential for women serving -- or aspiring to serve -- in any kind of leadership capacity. It's a personal and professional trait that will serve you well, and it's certainly not selfish to aim to become more confident. When you work with confidence, you'll find that you're more effective and efficient -- and so is everyone you work with.
Yet confidence is a result, not a prerequisite or a requirement. In other words, you probably won't have it until you've done something to develop it -- and it builds on itself over time. This is good news: You can learn to be confident with each success.
Channel the Confidence Your Business Needs
There are plenty of benefits to being a strong, confident woman business leader. Not only are confident people listened to more deliberately and taken more seriously, but they also tend to handle business dealings more effortlessly, with greater ease and better outcomes.
Beyond that, your confidence will make both employees and clients more comfortable. It's reassuring to deal with someone who can take a stand and make decisions. Because confidence is a psychological motivator, it keeps you going during challenging times, enabling you to take risks and try new things without second-guessing yourself.
When you're confident, you're more relaxed and focused; therefore, you're able to make better decisions and act on them promptly. Speed matters in business. And second-guessing yourself often leads to hesitation, mistakes, and lost opportunities.
A confident physical presence comes across in the way you carry yourself, and it spurs improved outcomes more consistently. It's like a visible sign of success that says, "I'm going places and I'm clear on what I want to achieve, so follow me."
So You Weren't Born With It
However, it's important to keep in mind that it's natural for confidence to ebb and flow at times. When you're frustrated, disappointed, or coming off a failure, it's easy to allow anxiety, fears, and negativity to creep in. They can be temporary distractions, or they can create a vicious cycle that takes you out of your game for a longer time. The goal is to avoid the doom loop entirely.
We all have the capacity to develop confidence. Just like a muscle that's flexed and strengthened over time, it grows with each success. As you learn to believe in yourself, your confidence increases; before you know it, "confident" is your new normal. Follow these suggestions to move in the right direction and restore your confidence level when it wanes:
- Start with an ounce of prevention. Find a mentor who can determine where your negative thinking stems from and identify distracting fears and anxieties as they crop up in your life. Often, a little insight and a shift in perspective from someone you trust can be the catalyst you need to alter your perception and move on.
Every step of my career path has been possible because I channeled the confidence that I needed -- from navigating corporate America to starting my own business. That's not to say that confidence was all I needed.
Certainly, without essential qualifications and experience, confidence can be misplaced. However, in addition to having the skills and experience you need, confidence is a critical -- even vital -- component to your success, and it can benefit you personally and professionally. Don't leave home without it!
A highly sought-after consultant, super connector, trusted advisor, celebrity wrangler, and thought leader, Kelli Richards is the CEO of The All Access Group. She facilitates strategic business opportunities in digital distribution among innovative technology companies, talent and media companies, and brands to foster new revenue streams and deliver compelling consumer experiences. As a trusted advisor, she transforms the quality of people's lives. Kelli is also the author of a bestselling e-book, "The Magic and Moxie of Apple: An Insider's View."