To A Friend, On His Divorce - NYTimes.com

Two men talking and walking down pedestrian street into sunlight.
Two men talking and walking down pedestrian street into sunlight.

YOU were 7 and I was 6 when we met near the jungle gym. After becoming bandmates in high school and enjoying a brief twinkle of local stardom, we became men and did man things, one of which was each finding someone we loved enough to marry. I have proof that both of us were happy then. The photos from our weddings show us laughing, smiling, greeting friends and relatives, eating cake, smoking cigars and dancing.

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