What is unbecoming?

Is it unraveling?

Is it undoing?


Is it a path to seeking?

  • Seeking...Who am I, really?
  • What do I enjoy, really?
  • What brings me joy, really?
  • What legacy do I want to leave, live up to, really?

Unbecoming is messy and painful and joyful and...


Remember that spark?

The one that lights you from the inside out?

The one that brings you strength and beauty?

That's your unbecoming...

Ridding yourself of the layers you have created to try and dull that spark...that strength...that beauty.


No, quite the contrary.

It's 'BECOMING' you.

With a Smile,


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