"There's just something about her."
You just hear that about certain people. They have that special "something." It's not tangible, but you can definitely feel it.
You feel naturally drawn to them. Like a magnet. You're not sure why, but you feel an invisible pull drawing you to come closer.
This sort of natural magnetism is powerful. And it's desired by all of us. We as human beings want to feel connected, appreciated and adored.
But how do you become magnetic as an introvert?
We don't want to have to be the loudest person in the room to get attention. We don't want to have to change or be more extroverted. We want to have the right type of attention that reflects who we really are.
So what is an introvert to do?
You tune in. Deep.
You tune into yourself first.
And then, you deeply tune into others.
Let's begin with with ourselves.
Tuning in to your own inner connection builds the core foundation you need to be irresistible. When you tap into your own vibe and natural energy, then you become a powerful and undeniable magnet.
People will feel you because you are feeling yourself. The more you feel grounded with a deep sense of knowing in who you are, you will attract people who are in tune to your same frequency. Because ultimately, we are all made up of energy. And like attracts like. The better you feel, you attract people to you at that same good-feeling frequency.
So how do we actually deepen our inner connection within ourselves?
First, create non-negotiables to help you feel centered and whole. For example, set aside regular quiet time each day to tune into your own inner guidance. Honor this as sacred time before you begin your day so you feel grounded before you engage with the world. After all, needing this quiet time to recharge is what makes us introverts.
Next, honor all your natural strengths as an introvert, such as being compassionate, a good listener and natural connector. And be kind and gentle with yourself as you bravely face your fears and insecurities. Create a safe space for yourself to lovingly heal old wounds.
Trust yourself and your own instincts. Give yourself permission to feel good and explore what you love without judging yourself. Give yourself permission to feel free and express all of you. You can be quiet and fierce.
For example, an empowering way to express yourself is through developing your own soulful style. Style can be another sacred practice for you to explore your soul's desires. Again, give yourself permission to love what you love without over thinking it. When you are drawn to your favorite pieces, that is your soul's way of communicating with you. This is an opportunity to reflect on what those special pieces represent about you. These are divine cues on how you are meant to evolve and express who you are becoming.
Once you are deeply tuned in with yourself, you can now tune in to others and connect in a way that keeps people genuinely engaged.
Because once you attract people to you, you want them to stay connected in order to build real and lasting relationships.
So, how do you do this?
Be mindful of the energy and intention you bring to yourself and to every interaction you have with every single human being. People can feel your vibe without you saying a word and they will always remember how you made them feel.
Be super personal and thoughtful with how you interact with the world and look at each relationship as sacred and special. For example, be consistently kind and helpful. Speak to each person by name. Say thank you in every interaction you have with people, in-person and online.
The goal is to ultimately create a supportive community by building these real, long-term relationships. Always find win-win opportunities for everyone involved.
Bringing this type of thoughtful and exquisite care for yourself and to others is how you become an undeniable magnet, and human being.