Veterans And Military Families Deserve The Best Chance

This is why I support Hillary Clinton.
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Sharon Metcalf Appelquist, 1971

Ten years ago this past weekend, my father died unexpectedly at the age of 58 from complications of chronic heart disease and diabetes. He was a U.S. Army veteran and had been a patient at the ill-fated Phoenix VA hospital. I never got to say goodbye but he made me who I am today. He taught me about honor, patriotism, courage, resilience, hard work, humility, modesty, pluralism, and faith in a way only a father figure can.

I first learned about politics from my father. I remember him telling me, when I was about 8 years old, the same age as my daughter is now, that he was a Republican. The 1984 me knew little about what that meant (there was no public internet then), but he was very proud. My dad talked about Abraham Lincoln and the importance of hard work and our military. It is my father’s life and the values he instilled in me to honor my country that drives my passion to support our active duty and reserve military, veterans and their families.

Willa Jean Metcalf, 1980

It is because of my father and his life that I support Hillary Clinton. The hard truth: My two sisters and I were losing my father to depression and alcoholism decades before he died. He learned how to self-medicate while serving in the Army. And when he retired, he used alcohol to cope with the challenges of reentering civilian life that included a divorce from my mother (his wife of 20 years), coming out of retirement but needing to find a new job, and eventually declaring bankruptcy with two daughters in college and another in high school. It was because of a job he received working at the Department of Veterans Affairs to help veterans receive home loans that he was able to keep a roof over his head.

My father’s experiences with depression and substance use while serving in the military and as a veteran were not unique. According to the National Institute on Drug Abuse (NIDA),

Those with multiple deployments and combat exposure are at greatest risk of developing substance use problems. They are more apt to engage in new-onset heavy weekly drinking and binge drinking, to suffer alcohol- and other drug-related problems, and to have greater prescribed use of behavioral health medications.

With respect to self-medicating and substance use, “In one study, one in four veterans returning from Iraq and Afghanistan reported symptoms of a mental or cognitive disorder; one in six reported symptoms of post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). These disorders are strongly associated with substance abuse and dependence, as are other problems experienced by returning military personnel, including sleep disturbances, traumatic brain injury, and violence in relationships.” (NIDA). According to the Department of Veterans Affairs and the National Center for PTSD,

More than 2 of 10 veterans with PTSD also have substance use disorder, almost 1 out of every 3 veterans seeking treatment for substance use also has PTSD, and in the wars in Iraq and Afghanistan, about 1 in 10 returning soldiers seen in VA have a problem with alcohol or other drugs.

When left untreated, the awkward transition to civilian life combined with untreated mental health needs and self-medicating via substance use leads many of our finest men and women down the path of homelessness.

These individuals sacrificed their lives for our freedom and deserve better. Although the numbers of homeless of veterans has declined nationwide, the numbers are still too high. California homeless veterans make up more than 25% of the total number of homeless veterans in the entire United States. With an estimated 9,000 homeless veterans in California, more than any other state, Californians have a responsibility to elect a Commander-in-Chief who has a history of helping this community with words and actions. We need a President who understands the needs of the entire military community, including veterans and military families. We need a President who will give our veterans their best chance at a successful civilian life.

Hillary Clinton is offering current and future veterans this best chance; she knows and understands firsthand the unwavering sacrifice of their service. Secretary Clinton was raised by a veteran; her father served in the US Navy during World War II. In her roles as First Lady, U.S. Senator from New York, and Secretary of State, she saw first-hand how service members and their families are impacted by relocation and deployments. Her platform for our military includes veterans and military families, including the promotion of “family policies that provide military families with additional opportunities and much-needed flexibility in juggling multiple challenges.” She also recognizes the role that substance use plays in how our service members and veterans cope with the trauma of war and the challenges of change. In particular, her platform includes: “Educate and encourage state veterans affairs departments to include veteran mental health programs in state requests for federal grants as part of Secretary Clinton’s initiative to combat drug and alcohol addiction.”

Caring about veterans and military families is not something new for Secretary Clinton. She has been fighting for us for more than 20 years. When she served as First Lady, she used her position to get Iraq War service members and veterans the care they needed, as detailed in this New York Times article from 1995. “‘No issue is off-limits and every reasonable inquiry should be pursued,’ Mrs. Clinton told the first meeting of the President’s Advisory Committee on Gulf War Veterans’ Illnesses.” Secretary Clinton has maintained this passion to serve our community with each leadership position she has held. Her detailed plans include active duty and reserve military, veterans, and their families.

Donald Trump, on the other hand, is only offering quips and exclamations of disbelief to our active duty and reserve military, veterans, and their families. Go to his campaign website and discover his plan. On his campaign website, he discusses veterans in the Positions and Issues sections. His “Positions” platform mostly identifies changes to the VA, with one mention about how to improve the transition from military to civilian life. He does not mention military families and the unique challenges our community faces. For “Issues,” he has a 17-second video about the military. His plan regarding veterans: “We’re going to take care of our vets.” That’s it, literally.

Although Mr. Trump’s fundraising for veterans has had its ups and downs in the press, the truth is that up until the campaign, he treated veterans with disdain.
And in his own words, he said that disabled veteran vendors were turning New York City’s Fifth Avenue “into an outdoor flea market, clogging and seriously downgrading the area.” Shame on you, Mr. Trump.

More than 21 million veterans are living in the United States today. They are everyday individuals we work with, look to, and interact with every day. They are our mothers and fathers, sons and daughters, sisters and brothers, and aunts and uncles. Our veterans are supported by their loved ones and friends, including a spouse, children, parents, and extended family. Each of these courageous men and women have sacrificed so much for our country and our freedom that we often take blindly for granted. We owe them the best chance possible for a successful transition to civilian life.

Jennifer Appelquist, 1994

My father did not live long enough to meet his three grandchildren. He was not alive to see me run for political office. But in his absence during major milestones in my life and the life of my daughter, his legacy continues to live on to this day. The foundation of his patriotism, hard work ethic, and duty to country he instilled in me at a young age resonates with me every day. This is why I support Hillary Clinton. She is prudent, strong, and committed to defending out country and sustaining us as a global leader. I know that, as Commander in Chief, she will continue to fight for our veterans, our military families, and our country.

Sharon Metcalf Appelquist, 1976

If you or someone you know needs help, call 1-800-273-8255 for the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline. Outside of the U.S., please visit the International Association for Suicide Prevention for a database of resources.

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