AskCheryl is an etiquette blog on the RegistryFinder.com website where readers submit their questions and get answers. The following is a question from a reader.
Dear Cheryl,
I want to include non-traditional items in my wedding registry. Are there things that I shouldn't include? Friends told me to register for anything I want, but I'm just not sure.
Dear Not Sure,
While it's a short list, there are a few things that are best left off your wedding gift registry.
- Personal items. Guests prefer to purchase something for you as a couple, something you will use together or that will enhance your new life together. Personal items, such as an iPhone, iPads or clothing, should be left off your list.
- Anything Offensive. If any of your guests might be offended, leave it off.
A wedding registry is really for your guest's convenience, so try to think about it from their point of view. Here are some other guidelines to help you create a wedding registry that will make both you and your guests happy.
- Give your Guests Choices when creating an "alternative" registry... With so many unique registries available, it's easy to get excited about the idea of creating a honeymoon registry, active lifestyle registry or even a wine registry. And while those registries may create a lot of buzz and excitement among your friends, a traditional registry should also be included for those guests that are more comfortable giving traditional, more practical gifts.
Do you have questions or comments about gift giving etiquette? Please email me at AskCheryl@RegistryFinder.com.
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