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Answer by Daniella Maydan, lives in Palo Alto
I'm going to come at this from the perspective of a teenager that's currently growing up in Palo Alto. I attend Palo Alto High School. There are many Pros and many Cons.
Pros:
- Great weather (according to most). Although I personally would have loved to grow up in an area where there are actual seasons, the weather here is pretty darn good. It's always pretty warm. It doesn't snow, and it doesn't rain much.
Cons:
- It is VERY stressful. Going to high school here is EXTREMELY hard and stressful. The standard is very high. People that would be top of their class in any other school, are completely lost in the middle. They sometimes barely even make the top 20% of their class. It makes you feel pretty worthless. You work your butt off and yet there will always be A BUNCH of people that are way better than you are. I'm talking about people that are taking multivariable calculus as freshman. People that got 2350s (or higher) on the SAT in 6th grade. People that have real jobs as programmers. People that went to your middle school, and yet somehow now attend a world class university such as Berkeley or Stanford (at the age of 14). There are so many of these people that it's become normal. These people aren't the exception. I think that kids that grow up here tend to do better than most after high school. Many people that go to college from other areas are completely unprepared, but people coming from Palo Alto usually don't find it as hard. The jump is not as big. However, high school is a living hell for many of us (but, I guess this is true for most people...). Now, it's awesome that as kids we are pushed to work hard and that we are surrounded by very intelligent people. However, many times it gets to be way too much.
In conclusion, I'm still very undecided on this subject. The area is fantastic! As a parent I would most definitely want my child to grow up in an environment like this! But as a student, I'm not so sure...
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