A woman has always been the backbone of her family. She’s the one that carries her family financially, mentally and emotionally; even if there is a man in the house. She’s there all the time, and in most instances, expected to push aside anything she is feeling to cater to others. That is the reality for most women, in particular for the black woman.
The black community has always needed the love, support and spiritual faith of a black woman; her job is neverending. However, her high demand is inevitable, and unfortunately, she can lose herself. It’s responsibilities like this that lead to mental and physical instability, but what if all of that can change just by packing a bag? Traveling is a great way to reboot, and it is safe to say that many black women do not do it enough. Of course, there are those family vacations and kid-friendly trips, but what about a place just for her? A location of serenity and tranquility that will not only ease her mind but save her life. Yes, traveling can save the black woman. Here is how.
1. Explore/Being Familiar With Unfamiliar- Familiar is what she needs to step away from, momentarily. The world is a large place with a lot to see. Just by leaving what she is familiar with, and stepping into an area that is unfamiliar can give her total relaxation. One of the biggest struggles that face women in the black community is not being able to go outside of what they know. Working non-stop and not having enough financial stability to go away, hinders them from going on lavish getaways with friends or enjoying a solo trip. However, traveling is not only about distance. Booking a room in her state or a nearby city for a weekend can work. Doing things and exploring places in her backyard that she has never seen before can also do some justice. Sometimes, the unfamiliarity that we need to familiarize ourselves with is not too far from home.
2. Teach/Continue Her Teaching- Black women are more than nurturers, they are teachers. When you educate, you are giving lessons in what you know. So, how do you teach what you don’t know? You learn! The best thing about the world are the different cultures in it. There is so much history that can learn through the cultures you interact with, and traveling can expose that. One of the biggest societies she can explore is her own. Places like Africa, the Caribbean, South America and even the American South can shed light on traditions and customs she didn’t know existed. Bringing back the knowledge she has acquired, while exploring the world to her family, makes her better in a category she has already excelled in; Teaching her children.
3. Rest/A Much Needed Break- Though the numbers are changing, there is still a significant percentage of black women who are raising their children alone. They work multiple jobs and are trying to be there in every way possible for their children. However, if they are unable to take care of themselves, they cannot look after their responsibilities. A break is needed for a palette cleanse. Find someone that you trust who can take care of your family for a few days. Take that much-needed break, so you can return better than you were before.
Being able to travel has always been a luxury, and Black women should be able to indulge in this luxury as much as they can. When you work hard, you should be able to play hard, and black women are always on the front lines when it comes to love and support. Every warrior needs time to heal, and more time of healing and restoration can give her the strength and endurance she needs to continue her job.
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