“Mum, it’s like everyone wants to be autistic like me now!” my 8-year-old daughter announced as she came out of school on Monday.
She was referring to the latest “craze” for the fidget spinner in her school (and it seems every other school in the country). Suddenly it was “cool” to want to fidget, and if you didn’t have the must-have fidget toy, you were somehow the odd one out.
It did somewhat amuse me to think that after an entire month of autism awareness all it actually took to make autism “cool” was a little handheld plastic and metal spinner!
So does having what is marketed and made as a fidget toy for those with autism and ADHD become a huge international craze benefit those with autism or not?
It has certainly seems to have made my daughter less stressed and self-conscious about her need to “stim” at school. Previously it was rather obvious in her mainstream classroom which children had autism or ADHD as they had access to special cushions, stress balls and tangle toys to help them concentrate or remain calm. While others were shouted at for fidgeting a select few were allowed to “play” with these items at the teacher’s discretion. Having a fidget toy was something only children with a diagnosed condition were supposed to want or need.
Now suddenly that has all changed.
While this has the advantage of making children with autism feel more included and less isolated, perhaps even “cool,” it also has some negative effects too.
How do you decide which children are wanting a fidget toy and which children really need it? Should schools allow all children opportunity to fidget and “play” in order to enhance concentration and productivity or are fidget toys actually a huge distraction in the classroom setting?After all the manufacturers never set out for the toy to be used so casually by so many and it was in fact designed as a stress release for the autism/ADHD market. When school decide to ban sensory and fidget toys they risk isolating the very children they spend years trying to include.
I am loving seeing my daughter play together with children in her class with a toy she is confident in and comfortable with. It is rare for a craze to include her as she is usually socially unaware of what others are doing, so to see her included of her own doing is beautiful. I love that the world is now seeing sensory and fidget play as “normal” and not something to be mocked or frowned upon. I love that the current “in thing” is now readily available in shops everywhere and very inexpensive. It requires no language and little skill so everyone can join in.
But I worry too. I worry that schools are quick to react and ban everyone from using fidget spinners just because they are so popular. I worry that when everyone else moves on my daughter will be the one left standing alone still spinning her little hand held plastic spinner by the school gate once again ignored by her peers. I worry that people will see her as just “playing” like everyone else and forget that for some these fidget items are a necessary stress release and stim.
Time will tell how long this latest trend lasts. For now though I can see my daughter’s point. It really is like everyone suddenly wants to be autistic. I am watching with interest in the hope this has a positive impact for awareness and acceptance of not just my daughter but the rest of the autistic population too.
*this post first appeared here:https://autismawareness.com/when-autism-fidget-toys-become-the-latest-craze/