Why are You Single?

Why are You Single?
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Why are You Single?

This is a question that I get asked often. It used to bother me, but I actually take it as a compliment.

Usually, a person asks because they see you as a quality person, and they wonder why you haven’t found someone.

Well, I am single by choice.

The reality is, I don’t settle.

When it comes to everything in my life,I have high standards.

And it’s not because I have a Huge ego.

In truth, I strive to live an extraordinary life.

And so should You.

Don’t you deserve an inspiring, passion filled life that excites you every day?

So when it comes to a relationship,

I’m not going to settle unless it is an extraordinary, passionate love.

A deep bond held together by respect and adoration.

Where two selfless people share the same vision and bring out the best on each other.

I guess when it comes, you just know it.

The problem is that most people will tell you that this is not possible.

“It’s just a fantasy.”

Like other the bullshit society tells you…

“Go to school, get a safe job and have fun when you retire.”

F*ck that.

“All millionaires are greedy assholes.”

That’s bullshit.

In fact, I’m friends with plenty of millionairesand they are some of the most giving people I know.

“In order to be in peak shape you need to be a slave to the gym and starve yourself.”

Nonsense, you can have your ideal body, live a balanced life and enjoy the foods you love.

These are some of the lies that society tell you so you can remain average.

To them I say,

F*ck being average.

You deserve to be Awesome.

I believe the secret to life is not just to have high standards but to live in the moment,

loving what you have while you keep your eyes on what you want.

Having the self-awareness to know exactly when you’ve reached your ideal.

That is the beauty of an ideal,

everyone has thier own version of it.

At the end of the day,

You know what’s best for you.

And you know when you’re settling.

Settling makes you feel shitty.

Keep in mind, you may not get what you want.

But you Always get what you settle for.

Life is too short to commit to anything mediocre.

Keep your standards high and do your best to achieve your ideals.

If you love yourself and do the work to live the life of your dreams,

the world will conform to your desires.

You seriously deserve an extraordinary life.

Nobody wants to look back on their life with regrets.

So keep it simple and use this as a filter before you Commit to Anything…

If it’s not a F*ck Yes,

it’s a waste of your time.

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